I've been with my boy for 3 months, and we were best friends for a year before that (Long story for another day)
We are planning on having sex soon. It will be his first time and, regrettably, I've had sex with one boy before him. I am the first person to ever even suggest something sexual to him, much less touch him
I am on birth control, but you must understand, I am highly paranoid of pregnancy. I would feel safest using a condom + BC, but for our first time I'm willing to just be on the pills
Would this make him a lot less content to use condoms from there on out if his first experience was without one? Sort of like spoiling him? Or should I go ahead and make this special?
Hmm good question. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and he prefers to use a condom and because too for our first time. He has nothing to compare it to though. Neither do I but I have a friend who says no condom is way better. I want to make our first time together special though. And since we have no stds to worry about if he's cool with it we'll definitely be going condomless lol. So yeah. I doubt that really helps you but I thought id share my opinion since you have no answers yet. :]
No condom is way better. Should be better for you and for him both. Live a little. You're on BC. The only way to be perfectly 100% safe is to not have sex. You're already 99% of the way there, and you're not getting to 100%. Why make it that much harder for .5%?
It's going to feel amazing to him the first times anyways. You should get yourself checked out before having another partner too. It's great to be safe and he will appreciate your act of selflessness. Have fun!