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Asking a friend with benefits to jerk off in front of me?

Although I am pretty fun in bed, I'm extremely shy when it comes to ask for stuff. Which means that I can f*** a guy's brains out while he spanks me blindfolded, but I can't ask for things I want. Basically, I can't verbalize what I think. I worked this out and I now can directly say what I want to try when he asks me and I can say some things during sex, like asking him how it feels, tell him to beg for me, basic stuff. The thought of seeing a guy jerking off in front of me is just a huge turn on. I want to ask my friend with benefits to do it, but I'm afraid he thinks it's weird and that I'm somewhat of a freak. I don't really have to stay awkwardly in front of him staring, I could just walk around, touch him, talking in his ear I'd probably help him finish, just because BJs are awesome. Guys, would you think it was awkward for a girl to ask you this? Would you accept and if so, would you ask for her to do something specific? Girls, have you ever asked this to a guy, and what was the answer?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Nah I've done this before and it was pretty hot. I got her to play with herself I while I worked on me. The best way to do it is to start doing it to yourself in front of him and then ask him to start doing it. Then, throughout let him know how much it's turning you on.

    • You will need to communicate mostly while in the act. If he's any good at sex at all he'll get past the awkwardness some people might feel and think it's really hot that he's getting you off like that.

  • Nah I'd not think it's awkward plus I'd do it if she asked... I've not been asked to do it before, but my answer would still be yes. It's not weird and he won't think it's weird... Guys enjoy watching girls do it so why not?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have asked and almost everyone that I asked were more than willing. I get turned on by this. I've watched a lot of guys do this. It's fun to watch but the ones that moan and get into it really good are such a turn on for me.

  • Yes I've asked guys to jerk in front of me. They get turned on knowing I'm getting turned on by watching. Specially if they will shoot in my mouth afterward, or on my boobs.

    • you are awesome!

    • Thanks

  • I've asked guys to do this and YES it is a HUGE turn on for me... No regrets here!

    • You are awesome!

    • jmurk so are you!

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  • I dont' think it's awkward, and I would definitely do it.

  • I love doing this. My girlfriend and I do this often and usually finish with sex or bj. She was the one who flat out asked me and it excited me even more that she asked.

  • Yes and yes.

  • no, I don't feel its awkward. I would do if asked by my partner. But I would prefer she teases me, maybe strip tease or caress me while I do it for her

  • Offer to Jill off while he jacks off...mutual masturbation can be a fun way to break the ice and set you up for future requests.

  • I don't think this is awkward, and I'd definitely do it!

  • It's not weird and I would think it would be awkward. Most guys would probably love to try that.

  • the way your describing yourself it wouldn't be. maybe with someone else

  • f*ck no! I'd do it, and I'd want to do it for her...

  • you should ask for what you want. I am sure he won't mind.

  • I wouldn’t feel weird at all. I’ve jerked odd with female friends before. We both masturbated while watching tranny porn.

  • Not at all I jerk off for my girlfriend all the time. I love jerking off for girls. I'll do it in heartbeat if a girl asks me too

  • It's very sexy. Just tell him that's what you want, and of course ending it with a BJ would make it even better.

  • I love doing that in front of a woman, it's one of the hottest things ever. I assume lots of other guys like doing it too, so your man is probably OK with it too. And if he isn't contact me girl, lol.

  • he might like it better if he can come on you.

  • No. It's not a difficult request. It might be a little uncomfortable to do, but doable.

    Why can't you ask him? It's not like you have some image that you'd be shattering if you asked. I don't get it.

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