My wife hired a nanny/babysitter. Is she trying to seduce me?

[Anonymous]

So my wife is pretty successful saleswoman. She sometimes has to travel for weeks at a time. My work is local but my hours interfere with getting our child off to school and appointments. Anyways she hired a girl in her early twenties to stay overnights when she is gone. Well the other night the girl asked if she could use the master bath to take her nightly baths. She said that the tub is way bigger and it has jets. So I text my wife and asked her what she thought and she said to let her. "A girl needs her bath" Well I let her and she doesn't do it until I go to bed. So she has to walk into my room to get to bathroom. Then she doesn't shut door all of the way! Not open enough to see in but still. So my question is 1) is she trying to seduce me 2) do you think my wife is testing me? 3) is it wrong for me to masturbate while she is in there so I can keep myself from wanting to go farther.

[Anonymous]

1. Yes, I would say she has other motives.

2. No. I think your wife has A LOT of trust in you. I hope you don't prove her wrong.

3. Yes, masturbating to the thought of a naked woman who's not your wife is wrong.

Personally, I think you need to man up. Look, even good people make bad decisions sometimes. You must NOT put yourself in situations where you will be tempted. If you are tempted by this nanny being in your house, then YOU need to fire her immediately. People don't "plan" on cheating, or having an affair...it just happens, and happens fast. This nanny shouldn't stay the night period. At the very least, you need to tell her that if she wants a bath in the master bath, then she needs to be done by 830pm (before you're in bed!)

I get the impression that if this nanny crawled into your bed naked, after her bath, you wouldn't turn her down.

Its good to have a wife with such great trust, but its wrong for her to put you in this situation. You guys should have discussed this decision together, and somehow worked things out where a hot young female wasn't spending the night.

You must kick temptation out of your house, or run from it...literally dude. If you don't, you will cheat on your wife, get a divorce, and some other dude is going to be raising your kids in another state.

I hope your wife isn't giving her body to other men on these trips. This just sounds fishy, on both sides.

[InquisitiveMale]

1. With such little effort as a hinged door her intent, if anything, is open for interpretation ranging from no to maybe.

2. Doubtful but you know your wife better then I do; I hope so anyways. Is that something your wife might do?

3. Ask you're wife. It's her feelings your supposed to be worrying about, not mine. I think you probably already know the answer to this one.

[Anonymous]

I am sorry if you are really troubled, but this sounds like a fake predicament. Like the set-up to a p*rno or something.

Either you're the boss and you put her in her place as the nanny (i.e. tell her not to take baths in your room at night) or you're in a p*rno and you peer in the bathroom at night, she pretends she doesn't notice and gives you a good show and then teases you until you guys are f*****g over breakfast.

In the meantime, masturbate...do whatever you want.

[ARCTICMS]

1) From what you have described,I think so.

2) Can't read her mind.There is such a possibility.

3) You can do anything you like in your bed, just don't get cought,it sucks.

[Anonymous]

well jsut tell her o act professionaly. she must be playing the game "im idding about it but I would be up for it if you wanted to do it" she's awful in my opinion

[tokioangel95]

Just don't get physically or emotionally involved with the nanny and you should be fine.

[TwiztedTD]

1) is she trying to seduce me -- hard to say, maybe she is just naive?

2) do you think my wife is testing me? -- I don't think she is testing you.

3) is it wrong for me to masturbate while she is in there so I can keep myself from wanting to go farther. -- I feel that it is wrong.

[SaltandVinegar]

1) yes it seems like it

2) no don't cheat on your wife

3) Sure