How To Perform A Good Blow Job For The First Time?

The act is quite daunting, and not too appealing to me. Plus, the anxiety about "being good" adds more stress to the whole situation. However, pleasing my man is a priority, because I want to give back what I get--an equal relationship. Basically, what are essential tips that a first-time blow jober should know? And how to perform well?
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  • Well first of all if your not going to be into it, it will show, and it makes you doing a good job more difficult. So my first suggestion would be to try and get yourself into it, try and enjoy it yourself. The guy loves it when your eagerly sucking him. That’s the most important thing, other things will vary form guy to guy, some may enjoy things others don’t. But generally speaking, most guys like the good old up and down method, the licking around and rubbing on face is good, but don’t over do that stuff, the up and down is important. Since this is your first time I doubt your going to be able to go very deep on him, so what you should concentrate on is the head, especially that part that attaches the head to the shaft. Really work that ring, and keep your mouth open wide at all times, most guys don’t like teeth, but like I said, this is a personal preference, and it’s okay to ask during. Better you ask and know, then keep doing something that he is not enjoying. If your willing and you going to go that far, let him come in your mouth, swallow if you can. This is again preference, but I would say 90% of the guys would appreciate this, although most girls are not into that, and you may not as well. As far as using your hand, that’s something your going to have to try and look for the reaction, some guys like all mouth, other like a little hand action mixed in. Don’t twist it thou, I have no idea why girls think we would like that. Nothing like an Indian burn on your cock. Playing with the balls gently can also be good, even if it’s not really the guys thing, I don’t think he would have any objections to it. Just try and be into it, relax, and enjoy it. Good luck, hope he loves it.

  • well let him know before hand that you are a little inexperienced and that you wouldn't mind him giving you a little direction. Each guy is different. So a blowjob is best if you ask what they want.

    • Thanks for making me realize that I should just be upfront and honest about my inexperience. I guess I have to come to terms with the fact that I am not going to fool him, and wow him with my amazing job the first time lol.

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  • u gotta make friends with his Woodcock Johnson first. just don't use your teeth and don't have a dry mouth but not too much spit either. be playful. avoid excessive eye contact as it will make him uncomfortable. just relax. if you don't like it stop. make sure you lay down the rules on if its ok for him to release in your mouth.

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  • Lick it, suck it, pump your mouth up and down on it, and stroke it with your hand. Mix it up with these and you'll do fine.

  • No teeth, keep to lips and tongue, be gentle, not too fast, speed up towards the end. Make sure you suck the balls and shaft it also feels good, kissing the inner leg upper leg can also work. you don't have to swallow the whole thing but trying to get as much in a couple of times with some good sucking I appreciate. Keep going until he's come, it makes it better, you don't have to swallow but make sure you stay on him till the end.