Should I tell his girlfriend that he cheated on her with me?

[Anonymous]

Lately I met one guy , I really liked him and he was friendly.. I though that someothing can be between us... we had sex 2 times and after 2 time I asked him if he thinks that between us can be somehting more... He replied that he has a girlfriend and he loves her .. He went also kinda rude, when I said I can't find a job he said " you can be a prostitute" I was really really depressed after this what happened, and now I see that he put on fb photos with his girlfriend, they write sweet things to each other.. I would like to make him suffer, is this good way if I write message to his girlfriend and tell her that he cheated on her?

[AwesomeErich]

Idk that's a tough situation I think you should tell her however she probably has no clue he's been cheating he needs to be set straight and the only way a cheater can be set straight is to end having nothing! I wish every time a guy cheated a girl could put a tattoo on his forehead CHEATER! I HATE guys that cheat in fact so much so if I hear a guy say he has and he talks about it in front of me I respond only one way and it's not through words I don't say one thing I PUNCH THEM RIGHT IN THE FACE and I make sure I knock the sh*t outta them trust me they get the point!

[Anonymous]

Is he the type of guy who might hurt you if he found out you told her? He's a piece of sh*t and doesn't deserve either of you, but I wouldn't want you to get hurt.

[Newgirl1979]

He is quite a catch then! Spot the sarcasm! Although it's tempting to get sweet revenge, be prepared for the worst - unless you have concrete evidence that you have had sex (texts, calls registered etc) then it is your word against his and he will tell his girlfriend that you are a complete liar/psycho stalker etc etc ... he will bad mouth you to EVERYONE to cover his tracks. As the saying goes, there is more than one way to skin a cat - bide your time as revenge is a dish best served cold

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't tell but he's a real piece of sh*t. As long as you didn't outright know he had a girlfriend it isn't you fault. Also some guys will lie and say they don't have a girlfriend when they do.

[zalikawashere]

If you actually care that she is being betrayed then yes but if not then don't do it out of spite.

[MrOracle]

Did you make any effort to find out if he was single before you slept with him, or did you just assume? IMO, if you asked and he lied, tell her, but if you never asked, then that's on you, and you should stay out of it.

You are responsible for knowing who you are sleeping with. If you don't ask, then you leave yourself open to being used.

[islands7]

Spend your time making YOUR life BETTER, such tasks obviously include being blind to & away from him. The Girlfriend knows what she has but won't give him up until something better comes along ... THEN SHE will lower the boom on this guy ... and you might get the news (if that makes you happy) w/o ANY of YOUR fingerprints on his grief.

[katiesmuff]

Spill the beans to the girlfriend. She deserves to know just what kind of a guy she has.

[bDizzie]

yes either anonymously or not, but you really need to tell her that she's dating an a**hole

[freefall7]

I mean, you could be a prostitute. Since you so easily gave yourself away to somebody you just met why not make some money doing it.

You could make him suffer, then again, you'll still be in the same spot. Plus I really don't think a cheater is going to care too much, just like you hadn't a single concern for the girl but only how he treated you.

[cutekid]

That dude is an a**hole and I wonder what and how his girlfriend will feel when she finds out the true color of her boyfriend. Telling her will ruin there relationship even though she has the right to know...its better she finds out herself one way or the other..

[FriendlyGiant1]

I'd tell her because he was such a complete d***! Just goes to show ya...Cheaters never prosper...

[Hamburgers]

No. That's her problem.

Cheating is normal.

Monogamy is not.

[Calex]

You could say to him "So if you have a girlfriend that you LOVE why do you sleep around with ME?"

The prostitute comment was really rude. You had sex with him because you like him, he took it for granted.

You could privately initiate a calm conversation with his girlfriend about it, not for revenge, for justice. Just remember that girls are different and there is a chance that she could turn out to be shallow and react badly to it and start having a fighty go at you.

Don't take any of that nonsense from both of them. Show them that you're better than them. You have better things to do than get involved with drama.

[Anonymous]

Did you know he had a girlfriend? Regardless he's a piece of dirt.