Women who are long past their mark.

The mark in this case is her virginity and this thread is to get your opinion on the subject. Now with no research done other than internet searches and obviously filtering out sites that don't agree with me and I claim they are sites that are ran by women, blue pill men, or the research was done in favor of women to get a larger audiences approval. Funny right? I tend to disregard research into gender fields that are blatantly common knowledge, although feels very ignorant for myself when done. So back on topic. The question here is simply; "Does the number of times a woman has f***ed men matter in a relationship?" "Is a virgin woman superior in nearly every aspect if looking for a long term partner or marriage?" and "Are women even able to associate sex with emotions rather than pleasure after whoring around?" For my answer on the subject is yes-yes-no, I believe that even one past is way out of line in this terms. Although I understand having one, regardless of my obvious fetish towards virgins. I believe that a woman who can have casual sex is unable to have a good relationship with a man that hasn't been downing blue pills like skittles. Exceptions apply but in general I think casual sex is something only men can do, and do well for that matter. While both parties are capable of random hookups and meaningless sex, well to put it simply, women just suck at it. From my own experience, and others as well, it is blatantly obvious men who married virgins or women with only one (or 2) partners in her lifetime often stayed married or stayed married longer and remained on good terms after the marriage ended. Men who have random hookups can still easily getting attached to women and truly love them, regardless of the string of whores he left in his wake. A man can literally f*** thousands of women and still feel a true love towards one later, while women are just unable to do this with very rare exceptions. Women who sleep around are just unable to feel a true emotional bond through sex and even if they feel something close it is never the same as if the person was a virgin and you were her first. To water it all down in one sentence, Women who f*** men casually are unable to have meaningful relationships with men at any comparison to a woman who gives a man her virginity. I find without virginity their is no point in being with that woman for anything more than a fleeting orgasm and then running away. One thing my father always said to me was "Women get worse at sex the more they have it and men just keep getting better and better". IT took me a long time to realize just how right he was at that, both physically and emotionally they just keep getting worse... So what is your opinion on the matter?
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  • If only men can have casual sex and not women where would they get the sex from? The reason I think a lot of men prefer virgins to experienced women is because some men are afraid their d*** size and skills will be compared. I don't agree with your opinion that a man can f*** thousands but can still love one. How the hell does that add up? If a man is f***ing thousands of women and he hasn't loved one yet what makes you say he ever will? And what if he loves more than one? Everyone is capable of feeling a true emotional bond through sex. If anything women are more capable of this because women a biologically more developed than men. There are some exceptions but in majority women are emotional, empathetic, nurturing creatures. The only thing that differs women who have had casual sex compared to a virgin is that the woman who has had sexual experience will have more sexual satisfaction and be more likely to satisfy her partner. What would you say to "A man without virginity is an animal driven by instincts. He has no love and care in his heart, just an insatiable sinful lust. He thinks of women as a one use item to be thrown out afterward. He should be castrated and cast out of society for the sin of lust and premarital sex." And your fathers advice came out his ass. Both men and women get better at sex the more they have it. You probably believe in the myths of popping the cherry, a virgin should bleed (when the stupid man has ripped her hymen when it's not necessary) and that a woman gets looser with sex. You are one f*cking stupid ignorant f*ck. Here are some links to educate yourself of the TRUTH! And if you think a woman without virginity is worthless you are a horror of a human being.

    https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=4anieKVTc44https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=xUOail-N8Mshttps://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=xUOail-N8Mshttps://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA&feature=c4-overview-vl&list=PLTXiNEUzXWKTOhoUZWMcXY2vVQs7NwCxqhttps://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=CLJw05N0-TIhttps://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=9sFGQd1v4qs



    A few things the open your mind.

    • I will just point out women do get looser the more they have sex, which the looser you get the worse you get. This only really goes with sleeping around though with women, as if they have a variety of sizes then it will eventually get loosened too much. Now towards your first comment, as a man I have no fear of comparison and that is a common insult used against guys who prefer virgins, you should educate yourself on the subject.

    • Your information is false. Women do get loose from age and EXTREME STRETCHING! Like a baby's head, fisting, huge dildos. And some women go back to their original size after childbirth and women can do kegels as well. And tell me. Why do you prefer a virgin? If you met a woman who was a righteous person at heart with honest, hardworking, traditional and kind beliefs and actions in life who loved you dearly would you forsake her because she wasn't a virgin and had more than 2 past partners?

    • Did you even look at any of the links? If you're saying I should go educate myself I will. So how about you educate yourself on misogyny, social construction of female virginity and basics of biology and sex.

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  • So what is your opinion on the matter?

    I disagree considering that I find many gals are able to have random hookups and still get easily attached to guys and truly love them especially as they tend to get attached to their random hookups or have feelings for them. While I find most guys whether they have random hookups or not do not get easily attached to gals nor truly love them...they may love her body but not her. I find this understandable considering studies show that generally it's gals not guys that get the oxytocin release from sex chemically bonding them and if a guy does get such a release it's quite minimal in comparison to a gal's release.

    I also disagree with the notion that "men just keep getting better and better" the more they have sex considering the orgasm gap, studies showing guys tend to get more pleasure then they give such as with oral sex (which is generally how most gals orgasm), I find most guys generally have no to little knowledge of female anatomy, and I also find guys tend to tell gals what she likes rather than listen to what she says she likes.

  • Statistics show that 40% of married woman lost their virginity to their husbands. This supports what you have said about the topic. I have had deep romantic desires about 3 times in my life time and it seems to become less intense each time, never had sex though but I think any guy that is better than others will be able to hold a girls attention.

    • "40%"? YEAH RIGHT! More like "4%" lol Show me the official stats ;)

    • must be really old stats

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  • My opinion is that your father was deeply wrong. Everybody gets better at things the more they practice, sex included. I've experienced it myself in many occasions.

    Some virgin girls are better than others their first time, but they all generally suck (I bet the same applies to men). With time they get more comfortable with their bodies, more self-confident and they get better and better at sex. They reach orgasm more often, they learn to give head, they move better, they learn to ask for what they want and to ask me what I want. Only someone who is a really really lousy lover would say that virgins do it better than experienced women, seriously.

    • I meant womens vagina gets looser producing less pleasure from vaginal intercourse... Plus an experienced woman is just gross, I mean think of how many cocks she had to of sucked, f***ed, and anything in between to get good.

    • Women vagina don't get looser for having intercourse, I've had sex with my girlfriend almost every day for three years and she's as tight as day one. Some girls are tighter than others, but the only two things that make their vagina looser are childbirth and age. You can't say how many times a girl had sex just by how loose her vagina is. You can't even say if she had sex 4 hours ago. More importantly, good sex has nothing to do with how tight or loose is her vagina. I know from experience.

    • Regarding being gross, I don't care how many cocks she has sucked, f***ed or anything in between. I only care about how good she is at giving head and how good she is when we have sex. In the same way, she doesn't care how many p****** I have eaten, in how many p****** I've stuck my d*** or any other thing. She only cares about how good is the sex we have. Get over your complexes dude, you mother also f***ed her fair share of guys, even if your father believes she didn't...

  • I think that data based on people who waited for marriage when they married 30 years ago is out of date.

    I suspect people with 'average' sexual experience and activity are less likely to have sex related problems than outliers.

    I think it might be easier for men to settle into marriage because generally men have to aim lower for casual sex then in a relationship. In marrying they trade quantity for quality. By contrast women can generally sleep with guys who are out of their league for a relationship.

    They can but not all do.

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  • I am a Virgin but that's stupid the way You think. If I'm a Virgin You have to Be a Virgin too if you expect me to be one. Like how do You expect a women to like you if your not a virgin when you only like virgin women? That's such a double standard. Unless your a virgin you can't really expect women to be one and you can't expect a virgin to want to be with you if your not a virgin yourself. Plus your in your 30s like can You really judge ? Like should you be in a relationship by now? Its rare to find a women of your age a virgin and not because she whored around but because maybe she's been with just a couple guys that she loved? How is that make her incapable of love? You sound like a jerk off so that's probably why your still single

    • Couple guys she's loved... lol. But lets be honest, why my own age range? If I can't find a 30 year old virgin then why don't I try an 18 year old virgin?

    • A still can't believe how big of a douche this guy is! -_- He expects a virgin when he isn't one himself. That's just beyond ridiculous. I hope you at the very least marry the prized virgin before 'deflowering' her. The question asker is a sadistic, hypocritical pig. I hope no woman will marry him.

    • First off all.. A virgin isn't gonna want a man whore there's a reason why she's a virgin.. second good luck trying to find a 18 year old virgin buddy

  • No past sex partners or no past sex partners should have no effect on a relationship! Your chances however of ever having a relationship of ever being with a woman is very slim. Most any woman understand your outdated and unreasonable ideas wouldn't get within a country mile of you.

    • You're crazy... So if a woman has slept with 60 guys am I supposed to still want her sexually? That is disgusting, and how am I supposed to even consider her to date or marry rather than just a bang.

    • Why yes you are suppose to still want her, that is if you are a real man! Peoples sex lives don't necessarily stay on hold waiting for you to come along and prior sex doesn't hurt a thing. So just maybe you should get your head out of your ass and see what life is really like.

    • Imagine being so insecure about your own virginity you have to belittle women for losing their v-cards... sorry SeniorSherlock but I think you’re just jealous because they’re getting more action than you ever will!

  • hell they should just bring back the Chastity belt

    • For men and women? But seriously the chastity belt is a silly medieval thing. There is only one small hole in it for pee and poop to go out of and you can't take it off to wash. Because you don't know the combination or have the key. Think of all the infections. And wouldn't you rather someone being faithful to you out of love instead of obligation?

    • no I know I was kidding...this guy is just really close minded

  • Have you ever considered you are FAR long past your mark you sexist piece of sh*t? You're ages 36-45. My guess is you haven't been married or have been divorced because you're and a**hole. How does it feel to be generalized?!?!?!?!?

  • You're an idiot. That's all I have to say in response to all the idiotic, blatantly sexist statements you made.

  • I am going to speak in generalizations, and only from my own experience. Women who have had many sexual partners also seem to have other personality issues.

    I guess we can say that correlation does not imply causation.

    • I've noticed women who have casual sex are generally fakers, such as their entire personality of whatever it was is only faked externally and is generally a black hole of disgust and hatred inside longing for any emotional connection since she doesn't even love herself.

  • I don't necessarily agree with you father's quote, but I agree with pretty much everything else.

    • Do you think men should be chase as well so they don't lust after other women?

    • Yes.

    • Well that was unexpected. I thought you were going to say men can sleep around. Refreshing, But you know some of his 'facts; aren't scientifically correct right?

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  • I love how you just asked a question and you got judged 9 ways to Sunday...

  • "Does the number of times a woman has f***ed men matter in a relationship?"

    In my opinion, no.

    I have always maintained that this obsession over a girls past is down to male insecurity. The more partners she's had, the more likely he is to be compared less than favourably to an ex.

    I'm secure in my abilities to please a woman, so I don't care how many partners she's had. I know I won't be the biggest guy she's ever had, so I don't worry about it.

    • It is a matter of disgust rather than insecurity. Think about it for just a moment. How can anybody sleep with a whore not knowing how many men have f***ed and come inside of her. How do you kiss a woman who you have no clue on how many times she has drank the come of complete strangers like water.

    • Considering all the people I date understand the properties of soap and water, it's never been an issue. You seem to think that if male come has touched her lips, then that sh*t is never coming off.

    • Sorry SeniorSherlock you’re the only “disgusting whore” I see...

  • guys who have sex with a lot of women, actually have a very hard time not cheating on their wife/girlfriend especially if she was a virgin, waiting till marriage, ya he's going to wait a year with no sex after he's been sleeping with many women, that doesn't sound right?

    there is just so much wrong with all you have said, especially at your age, you are going to have a long hard look ahead of you for that virgin who has waited 36+ years for you, your nothing special, what even makes you think you deserve that?

  • Be honest, your post wasn't based on "research" and "studies" was it? No. It's based on your blatant sexist mind that's still stuck in the 1500s.

  • I am glad I "got it over with" early when I was 17, otherwise I would probably still be a virgin into my 20's and everyone would give me sh*t for it. I rushed it in my teens and the sex was too great because the lack of emotional connection... but society is harsh on virgins... at least I can say I did it... I am not that crazy about sex, it's overrated... I am a little embarrassed I haven't had a serious relationship and I'm 21... to me that is more embarrassing... what's wrong with me? well I know... I like to be alone.. I just hope it doesn't last my whole life..

    • wasn't*

    • "Society is harsh" on MALE virgins - not female virgins ;)

    • yes tougher on men I agree... but I used to get teased by my mom and friends that I was a lesbian. (I'm naturally a tomboy), because of the pressure I started to wear make up and have sex, wanting to prove myself I guess. People think if you're a virgin something must be wrong with you. Oh also my friends who already had sex would talk about it and I felt left out, I remember my friend limping and complaining she was in pain I asked what happened and she said she saw her boyfriend the other night.

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