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Guys, would you rather marry "vanilla" or "adventurous"?

Would you rather marry a man/woman who is into vanilla sex or who is more adventurous? Assume the love and connections are the same. The sex is just different. Maybe not bad different nor good different. Also, neither are or were promiscuous nor unnecessarily prudish. Would you really want the mother of your child being the same woman who let's you have anal sex with her or role play? Would you really want that type of lady to raise your kids?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I mistook your question at first to be about experienced versus non-experienced. I'd definitely prefer my future wife to be somewhat adventurous when it comes to sex, but not too adventurous, I wouldn't want her to be into things that I'm not into, and I'm somewhat conservative when it comes to sex myself. I want her to be into oral, giving and recieving, and I want her to be adventurous when it comes to positions, and I wouldn't mind if she was into anal play/sex on herself, because though I'm not terribly into the idea, I'd like to try it at least once. I wouldn't want her to be into anal play on myself, BDSM, threesomes, swinging, or anything like that.

  • Adventurous. I don't know how a sex position can determine what kind of wife or mother a girl a can be

    • It's not only positions, but acts as well. As I mentioned, anal sex or role play. Or even having sex in public areas or using toys

    • Most of it is fine. I'd be willing to try most things at least once, but but I have line. Most if not all of these are no go link

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah, I think that whoever says I will be less than an excellent mother and wife because I accept to do anal, roleplay or whatever is a monstruously huge idiot.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why would you commit to someone and have boring sex all your life? Adventurous all the way

    • Some may feel as though adventurous means he or she will stray

    • Those people are foolish.

  • Probably adventurous sex but I'm not totally sure of your definition. I do appreciate someone that is open to trying new sexual things out and having a flexible attitude in general. I don't into really taboo things but creativity and exploration can be fun.

    • What's your definition of adventurous?

  • I'll have to go with adventurous

  • Definitely adventurous. I don't want to spend the rest of my life having boring sex.

  • Don't want to marry or have kids. I'd like someone adventurous, but who didn't feel the need to be that way every single time. Nothing wrong with dialing things back from time to time. Keeps you from getting desensitized to the kinkier stuff.

  • Adventurous for sure

  • Adventurous definitely!!!

  • I want the adventurous type

  • Adventurous . I don't want to feel like I'm screwing a vegetable .

  • Honestly, I don’t think you can judge how the sex will be in a marriage based on how things were when you were dating. My wife was very boring when we were dating; pretty much missionary at night in our bedroom. Since we’ve been married, and especially since our twins were born, she much more adventurous. She’s discovered she loves anal sex, loves different positions, and is generally hornier and up for sex at odd times of the day and unusual places. Now if I could just get her to swallow during oral, she’d be a goddess. Oh, and none of this greater adventurousness impacts her ability to raise our kids. She’s an awesome mom and in my view, a real MILF.

    • ^^ lucky guy.

  • Married vanilla, wish she was adventurous (everyday). I’m kinky and up for anything and she is vanilla. I’m always depressed and sad, especially when I know some other people who are like me in their sexual personality and I wish my SO had those traits.

  • she can be adventurous but, I don't f*** in the ass

  • Either. I'm Fina with any kind of sex unless it includes something I totally find as a turn off. I'm great with passionate and romantic sex just like hardcore sex. I can have either kind forever.

  • I'd think most men would chose the more adventurous girl in the bedroom. LADY IN THE STREET...FREAK IN THE SHEETS! ;)

    • Indeed.

    • ^dat.

  • Adventurous of course

  • Adventurous!

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