Girls, do you mind a new guy getting handsy?

[Anonymous]

Like a lot of guys, I find myself getting bolder and handsier when I go out to drink. I was thinking today and suddenly realized girls don't seem to mind getting felt up - when drinking that is. Now I don't do it often so it's a small sample size, but as I think about the girls I've met while out at a bar or something - typically friends of friends - and I start to flirt, they haven't minded my hands. The typical routine when I do this is drunkenly flirt at the bar and then on the ride home I let my hands start to wander sitting by them in a backseat. I don't just suddenly go for the gold but usually start with a hand on the thigh just above the knee. Tend to move up the leg toward inner thigh. Rub the small of their back. Maybe hold their waist and graze the side of their boob. I like to gradually work my way to playfully sqeeze their boobs or butt. Even get so far as letting my fingers roam along the waistline of their jeans/panties as if I'm about to reach between their legs. Never actually trying that. After all we're in a car full of people! Not to mention a couple of the girls even had bf's. Anyway, I'm just wondering if many girls would let a guy you've just met to get that handsy with you. Is it something you'd enjoy and allow? Or would you pull away, stop his hand, or prevent it some other way?

[XRabbitHeartX]

I wouldn't allow/like that. It's off putting and even if the guy is attractive, I'd still decline because I'd just assume he's looking for a good time if he is already interested in feeling me up on the first night of meeting me. I like being treated like a lady and taking things slow. Getting felt up at a bar is just a bit too trashy for me. Especially if I don't even know the guy. I guess some girls will like it, but I think that might be more promiscuous girls who wouldn't mind just having a good time, no strings attached. More reserved girls such as myself wouldn't.

[harveykinkle]

If they're leaving a bar with you to go home with you without knowing you likely their standards and boundaries will be pretty low...

[Eyesofthewhitesun]

I definitely would mind if a guy started feeling me up in this situation but then I am not likely to put myself it that situation in the first place

[katiesmuff]

I would mind a bunch if it was unwanted by me.

[Betwyn]

If I'm feeling it too.. then its all good.. and I'm likely to get handsy back..

and honestly, the drunker I am, the less I care...

[Anonymous]

If the guy doesn't creep me out, then I am all for him getting hands. Heck, there have been times when I wished guys were more forward with this. I say go for it. If a girl is not into it you will know