Why are guys annoying about their penis size?

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One time I mentioned to my current boyfriend that the guy to whom I lost my virginity had a huge dick, like beyond the point of comfort. I said it was uncomfortable and I bled a lot, and I just hated sex afterwards. He SOMEHOW interpreted this as "yeah, he had a huge dick and yours sucks." Yeah, I wish my current boyfriend had so big of a dick that sex was always painful and difficult, and that I bled each time we f***ed. Please, God, why does my boyfriend have such a comfortable penis that doesn't rip me apart? The sex is amazing with his penis, but I just wish it hurt a lot more sometimes and was generally a lot worse. (the last two or three sentences were sarcastic for those of you too stupid to figure it out) Guys, you can see my confusion here. Why do you idiots think 7-inch around cocks are what we need? That would be like me incessantly being self-conscious about not having double d boobs. Stop it, it's f***ing annoying.

audreymarie21 · Accepted Answer

I know what you're saying, but they think 'the bigger the better' because most girls can't decipher the difference between 5" and 7", and they don't know what it's like to have sex with the different sizes, all most girls know is lil' Kim wrote a song saying "under 7 inches, err sorry!"

but the only girls that really need a larger penis are the ones with a deeper, wider set vagina.

and as for your boyfriend getting jealous and upset over you mentioning the guy you slept with who had a larger penis, well, first it probably had something to do with the fact that the guy slept with you before, guys don't like to think of their girls with other men. And second, I guess it would be like him telling you about a girl he slept with that was SO tight he could barely get his penis in. Yes, it probably wouldn't bother you much, but that's because we are more mature :)

gettingold · Accepted Answer

Best never to say more than . . . Yeah, I'm not a virgin.  Nothing more is necessary or needed. . . not how many guys, no info more than what a person could see if they met them on the street, and never details of intimate stuff like sex.  Stuff like that NEVER goes away, especially if the guy is insecure.  Lesson learned the hard way for me when I told my first husband (ex now) the name of the first guy I was with.

sexycrystal54313 · Accepted Answer

because it's there super-self conscious about penis size just like chicks are with boob size. And for your other question I have never gotten that fact either why do they all act like we need a fu**ing telephone pole shoved up there, I know people that just one finger feels to tight for, we want to be satisfied not ripped apart only so  much D**K can fit inside my cooch thanks

franker · Accepted Answer

Girth and Volume should be what women might want to investigate.. More friction on the vaginal walls could give pleasure.. The sensitive part is the first two~inches.. of course this can vary from woman to woman..
To look at someone else's Assets your getting regardless of setting your looking at something from a different point of view, and advantage point.. Maybe Perspective? . I get a kick out of this because excessive pubic hair, and a beer belly can make any tool small..
To change the chairs around.. What is Average.. A, B, Or C Cup Breasts.. I myself believe that a "B" is Still considered small, A "B" cup can look huge on A Five foot petite Woman.. A Six Inch penis can look huge on a five foot slender man, right..

Kayaking · Accepted Answer

Yeah, why was it such an issue to bring that up?

What were you hoping to get, or gain from that?

Boyfriend: "Oooohhh baby, I'm so sorry you had to endure that terrible trauma in the past.

Now, I will always know why you are a constant, frigid bitch that is my job to deal

with. Thank you baby, you are the greatest for letting me know my small weenie, at

least, won't hurt you. "

l-hedoniste · Answer

You're absolutely right. None, however, will believe you.

Until the boys figure out what works for women and what doesn't, they think it's all penis size. It a ridiculous notion, but an unstoppable one.

StrykerJ · Answer

The average penis size is 5.75... and people think that size will be everything in sex...Truth is..it's not how big the worm is...it's the skills the worm has ;D

thatplayer89 · Answer

because you don't tell another man about another mans dick..

temptationfalls · Answer

You don't mention an ex's dick unless you're trying to compare the two. Imagine if he told you that his ex was way tighter than you. you'd be p*ssed off right? same thing right back at you

John888 · Answer

Look that's something that is built into a guys head, my suggestion is that you just don't talk about other guys dicks unless they're smaller, and yes I know its so stupid and immature but that's guys, but if you do then just make sure you reassure him (a lot lol)

Marrryyyyy · Answer

why are girls annoying with all of our problems-the color of our hair/eyes, the size of our butt/boobs/hips/waist, the color we paint our fingernails. because everyone is insecure.

Anonymous · Answer

How big was the biggest you had just out of curiosity?

Anonymous · Answer

Me personally I think a 7 is average and anything above is big.

I know you people would probably say 5.5 is average. But average to me isn't that.

Anyway, he should be happy your pleased with him and shut up about it :\

Bigger doesn't always mean better.

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason why girls are annoying about boob size.  Insecurity.

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