Do you announce when you are coming/about to come?

[Anonymous]

My guy and I were having s*x and suddenly, 5 minutes into it he Pulls Out, Heads to the washroom. I assume he had to pee or something But he gets in bed and lays down, Closes his eyes. I didn't know he was finished. I was lying there thinking he was going to come back and we would continue but he lays beside me and closes his eyes. Ten minutes later he is back on top of me, It was feeling so fcking good. And Then, Within another 5 minutes he pulls out and heads to the washroom, Flushes the condom, Gets into bed, Holds me, Falls asleep. He is the Only guy that Didn't say "I'm Coming" when he was coming. Honestly, I don't like that... I wish he had told me. So 1. Do you announce when you are about to Come/Orgasm? 2. Does your Partner let you know when they're Coming/About to come? Would you prefer your partner let you know? Say "I'm Coming?"

[Sovereign1979]

I will second the comments below, "five minutes, wow".

Honestly, I don't have to announce it. I am a heavy cummer and she can feel me shooting in her. By my third shot, it is running back out of her as I am still plowing more in her.

[gonyr]

You have to announce it. Terrible manners if you don't. If you don't announce that your about to come it basically says you don't give a sh*t about her and she's might as well be a pocket p****

[Dandeus]

And what if it's patently obvious that you're coming?

[Sovereign1979]

I agree with commenter below. And how is it not showing her manners if not announced? And how is she looked at as a pocket p**** if not announced?

[sockz]

I generally announce when I'm close to coming. The same goes for most of the partners I've been with. Sometimes words aren't needed because the physical reaction makes it quite obvious.

[THChowder]

Wow.

Five minutes? That would drive me insane.

My boyfriend always let me know. It's hot, also it's nice hearing it.

[Dandeus]

Considering the average guy only lasts 2 minutes and needs a lot longer than 10 minutes to get it back up? Seems she's got it pretty good. She just needs to train him to go down on her during the intermission.

[Sovereign1979]

Never heard of guys lasting only two minutes. Or go down on her before hand. My mate had two to three off even before I stick it in her.

[monkeylovesblue]

I've always announced it! My partners have always told me too!

[Stazz76]

I always announce it because it could make an awful mess if it catches her off-guard.

[Jonny_]

I tell them out of courtesy, although it's rare that I actually finish... Plus I don't really say it in the moment, it's more like a polite conversation.

[k1fighter08]

She knows when I start pulling her hair.

[MissConfused93]

Five minutes? Hahahaha poor you!

And you can't feel when he comes? He shouldn't have to announce it. You can tell.

[10angrycats]

Holy c**p, 5 minutes?

[cavmanier]

Sometimes I do but it's very obvious when it happens. My ex didn't have to tell me. It was very obvious as well.

[abw121290]

I generally give her a heads up that I am cumming.

[Reginelli]

Yea I usually let her know when I'm about to come. Most of the time she lets me know and I like for her to let me know.

[TylerDurden9087]

5 min? Ouch

[douride2]

I have never had a partner tell me they were coming And I have never announced it either. I could always tell he was getting close to climaxing.

[JPresidente]

Yes. Whether I’m with someone or by myself.

[SaltandVinegar]

1. Yes

2. Not always and yes I would like to hear it

[Anonymous]

I let her know so she can be prepared. Sometimes she wants it on her boobs, sometimes in her mouth, etc. So, I tell her. I also asked her to let me know when she's about to come and tell me whether I should keep going at the same pace, go faster, or pull out. I think it's best to tell.