He doesn't want to get emotionally involved but is pressuring to have sex.

We are dating for 3.5 weeks. And I noticed that he doesn't contact me on days when we don't see each other. When I asked him why he said that he still doesn't feel the need to contact me every day. And at the same time he is making pressure on me to have sex. I feel like that is not OK... Am I right about this?


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  • You are totally right. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Some girls don't mind being nothing more and nothing less than a sex object to a guy they're attracted to, but if you're already leaving the experience with nothing, at least leave with your dignity. I say drop him. Do not teach him that it's okay for him to only contact you when he wants to get off. That's tacky and sleazy and you deserve much better. Plus, you would feel like such a fool if you settled for that then found a guy later on who treats you like a queen.