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He's never come from a blowjob?

My boyfriend has never come from a BJ, not from me not from anyone. He has no problem cumming during sex, and I'm not going to claim to be an expert but I feel like I know what I'm doing. I've tried varing amounts of pressure, hands mouth tongue, various speeds strokes and nothing. It's kind of a challenge now to make this happen any tips? Has anyone delt with this before?

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  • I'm going to give you a different approach to it . Maybe he *can't* come from a BJ. I certainly know it takes a *LOT* longer for me to come that way. So I easily believe there are people who can't come from oral.What do you do?Well, what does everyone tell women to do when they can't orgasm from vaginal sex? Try a vibrator, try fingers, try whatever. Enjoy sex that way.What should you do?Not worry about it.Is he worried about it? If he is, let him know there's other people out there who take a really really long time.If he's not worried, does he enjoy it? If he does, then give him lots of oral, ask him what he likes from time to time, and consider it foreplay. Finish him with a handjob or a quick f***.If you *must* keep trying for that orgasm... Ask him for advice. That's a good start - he'll know better than us. That said... Lots and lots of foreplay *before* the BJ. Kissing, making out, gently touching, nipple play, whatever gets him hot without doing much with hisd***- it really makes it easier for me and my girlfriend. Then, when you go down on him, start fast and use lots of tongue pressed up against the bottom of his dick, and keep that up for a while ^_^

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  • It sounds like he's too concerned with you and feels like you're not getting what you need. The fact that he's never come with anyone that way just strengthens that possibility. If he's the kind of guy that just needs permission, you might tell him you want him to be the man and "make" you give him a BJ the way he wants it. Make sure he knows this is what YOU want. If you will, make sure to look him in the eye and swallow. Also make sure he knows how much you're enjoying the process and his cum. In short tell him that sometimes you want him to be selfish and just take you however he wants, if you're okay with that. It's time for him to man up and dominate sexually sometimes.

  • Put your finger in his ass when you blow him, he will come for sure.

  • It's important to have enthusiasm and that you genuinely enjoy going down on him. Oral sex is usually one-sided and can cause some self-conscious issues.What I mean is that he knows you're not getting any physical pleasure out of it. On top of that, he might not be so sure that you're really enjoying yourself and that you're only doing it to please him (or to get it over with). There's a big difference between knowing how to give and actually enjoy giving.You might want to consider rubbing his thighs or--as Betwyn suggests--a little humming. Anything to let him know you lust for him.

  • OMG ! , W*nk him off, with half his D*ck in your mouth . Sexe

  • I've never come from a blowjob either

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