What kind of dirty talk do chicks like?

What kind of dirty talk do you like to hear from a guy during sex and what kinds of things do you like to say that turn you on? And do you normally need the guy to initially start the dirty talk...that it is kind of his job in order to make you feel comfy dirty talking?
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Most Helpful Guy

  • This is *really* going to depend on the girl, and is probably something you need to talk to her about.

    Some girls are totally offended by any dirty talk. Some are okay if you don't use curse words, but say things like "I need you so bad; you are so hot I have to have you right now!" Some girls are fine with most dirty words, but have one or two dirty words that they simply cannot tolerate, and you need to know what those are or you can take her out of the mood instantly. And finally, some women love to be degraded and called the dirtiest, nastiest things you could possibly think of.

    The way you start the conversation is something like this: "Hey, how do you feel about dirty talk in bed? I'm interested in it because it's kind of a primal, direct way to communicate to you how much I am into you and how hot I think the things we do are in that moment. How do you feel about it?"

    Ask about any limits she has, and make sure you tell her that you are just looking to add some spice to your relationship, and that you respect her l feelings about it. Often, girls WANT to like it and do it, but are afraid that you won't respect them they tell you they like it, so they need to hear that you DO respect them before they can trust you with their true feelings.

Most Helpful Girls

  • depends on the girl. I don't like dirty talk at all. not the way they do in videos anyway. if I had to choose though, I'd rather they spoke softly. I think a voice is more powerful when it's got a soft commanding tone to it.

  • It totally depends on the girl. Some will love a lot of dirty talks, other will hate it. I know I like it a little, just...not too much because I could find it insulting after a while.

  • i don't understand dirty talk. it's not for everyone.

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  • ask the girl what she likes

  • hehehe ..i don't know, maybe "i'm going to eat you up"

  • ummh to me its not appealing.