How can you tell if you're good in bed? I am a female and I want to know what guys think.

[escapade531]

So I have been dating this guy for a couple weeks, we did it 6 times. I am not that experience but he doesn't seem to mind. I mentioned to him around 8 am that I wanted some. He got to my house in 10 minutes, I wasn't even ready...and when I was riding him really hard and fast and He started to make faces and moan a little..then he came. I was telling him to go faster and he responded " I want to take it slow and enjoy it, and I want you to enjoy it" How can you tell if he likes you in bed? What are ways he'll show me I am not doing it right? Because I asked him to teach me some things, but when I do it he never adjust me he just lets me do it...How can I know if I am doing it right?

[BatDoc]

Hmmm...how old is this guy? Is he experienced or is he just as green as you are at this?

Being good in bed is about having fun and not taking things too seriously. As you two become acquainted with one another in a physically romantic setting, you will slowly learn about each other and what your partner likes. Each person is different, so something you may do may make you great in bed to one person but make you terrible in bed to another.

The real key here is communication. Ask you partner what he likes. Ask if something feels good. And in turn, tell him when something feels good to you.

If you want one tip, be interested and focused on him in bed. There is nothing hotter and sexier than a woman who can't wait to get her hands on you in the bedroom.

[escapade531]

HE is 26 very experienced, and I am 21...I just feel so insecure about it, be he says "I keep him satisfied to the point he doesn't want anyone else" I try to talk to him, he just doesn't say anything back, but he keeps coming back for more...so I must be doing something right I guess...Thanks for the input tho :)

[BatDoc]

If he's 26, getting laid by a 21 year old, at that point, he doesn't care how you are in bed. But if he isn't complaining, then, yes, you have to be doing something right. Another suggestion, watch p*rn and take notes. Now you don't have to be crazy, but if you see things you think you might like or enjoy, then give them a try in the bedroom.

[sexhelp101]

If he likes it he will do it again. If he doesn't , he won't. Simple as that.

[moviedude714]

sounds like he enjoyed it a lot

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he was worried about cumming too fast, and wanted to slow down to give you enough time to enjoy it.