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Are my large boobs gross?

I have naturally large boobs, 38DD. I think they are big, gross and get in the way. Yes lots of guys stare at them but is it because they are attractive a overly gross? I'm insecure when I'm on top during sex, leaning forward because of the way they hang down. p*rn shows women with fake perky boobs but mine aren't they don't sag down but they don't stand at attention without a bra. I've been considering a breast reduction surgery, any thoughts?
38DD are too big and gross
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I'm 5'9" and weigh 160lbs. I'm not toned or obese but I do have a muffin top.
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They look like Shay Laren but my waist is 35" and my hips are 39". My BMI is 23.6 which is just in the healthy range if I'm understanding things right. I'd like to lose 2" around my waist.
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  • Guys stare at breasts of all sizes because we like staring at them. Big boobs are awesome so no need for you to worry about that. Do realize that not all guys like big breasts but you will find that majority do. DD is a big cup size but it's not really that big when you consider that British women are said to have the highest average breast size at 34 DD. In Canada and the U.S. the average size went from C to D I believe. Anything bigger than an H cup is huge to me but always good.

    FYI, guys love to watch your boobs bounce during sex! Are you kidding LOL? It's a highlight! One of the reasons why some guys like it rougher on the bottom is to make them bounce more wildly when you're on top. Some guys even love it so much that they have to stop looking at your breasts during sex. All that beautiful bouncing will make him climax too quickly from the enjoyment.

    Go for the reduction if your pain is too much and it hinders you from living a fun, healthy life. Do understand that there are other options aside from reduction surgery also. Eat right, get your body in shape and focus on having a strong upper body and a strong core. Your breasts will thank you when you have the body strength to hold them up

    • I stare at butts... couldnt care less about boobs. Unless she's got a booty like Beyonce, Serena, Jennifer Lopez, or Kim K Im not attracted.

  • The size can come from weight, but if you are thin then I could see it being a problem in the furture for back problems, but as far as guys thinking its gross, I don't think you'll here a lot of that. Many women get breast reduction just don't do it to much, big boobs are nice but on a thin women I think 34c's are really nice.

    On the other hand if you are over weight then maybe losing weight will reduce the size of your breast. Many women complain they loss breast size when losing weight, but in your case it would help.

    I don't know your size so that's why I put both answers

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  • Feeling your pain, well not about the sexual intercourse stuff because I'm still a virgin but I know how you feel because I am 34 triple D. Not until sophomore year in high school did I learn how in famous my boobs were, I didn't realize would stare until my friend accidently let it slip that everybody in school thought my boobs were massive,but the weird thing is that she always tells me she wish she had my boobs ( she's like a 34 B). My parents, heck even my grandmother told me I should get breast reduction, but I kind of feel uncomforable with that. If your pain from your boobs are just physical appearance wise then I suggest don't do it. If it hurts your back because if the weight then do it. It's your choice... If it really bother you this much then do it. My viola teacher did and she felt so much better( she was a E cup) before...

    P.S: where do you shop for bras? My mom takes me to place into that caterers to busty old people, they basically have 3 colors( white, black, nude). The bras are like $ 70 but they're super comfortable and natively lift my boobs. I would suggest a store like that.

  • Lol, I just asked a question about boobs about a minute ago too. Except I have the opposite problem as you. To be honest, I think majority of guys don't place that much importance to it. If they think you're sexy, you're sexy.

    I only say get a breast reduction surgery if it bothers you to the point where it's starting to affect your posture, and giving you back pain. Don't just do it because you don't like the way it looks during sex. Boobs naturally sag if they are bigger. A lot of women would kill to have your problem, me included lol. I have naturally small boobs and they still don't look perfectly perky without a bra, so it's okay.

    • Wouldn't it be nice if we could just share boobs lol. OK it sounds weird but I could donate to the less fortunate, like you, then we'd all be happy.

    • Lmaoo, yes please. I accept donations now.

  • I'm a 34E/DDD and I've considered getting a reduction because of pain/discomfort and I feel they aren't proportionate to my body :/

    Besides that though, its no secret that a lot of guys love big breasts. Most guys just like boobs in general. No boobs are fake-perky except those that are fake perky. I wouldn't worry about the aesthetics.

    • Shhhhhh! It's a secret! I don't think they're on to us yet! :P

    • Oops, didn't mean to reveal your diabolical way of thinking!

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  • Of course your boobs aren't gross. While lots of guys don't care about boob size either way, many guys specifically love big boobs. You have to know that by now.

    Yes, bigger boobs are more NOTICEABLE, so you'll always have people, even women, looking at your boobs. The vast majority of the time, it will be out of fascination/admiration, but you might get some women putting you down, mostly out of jealousy (that's more of a Jr High/High School thing, though, so you should be mostly past that already).

    Consider how many women pay huge amounts of money trying to get big boobs. Many girls would love to have what you've got naturally, so be happy and proud of them, and be confident.

  • I don't think they are too big, but if they are becoming a serious problem with being comfortable in yourself (in particular if they are preventing you from doing sports etc because of the bouncing) than perhaps you should consider reduction surgery.

  • It sounds like you are nicely proportioned honey, be proud of what you have, and unless it starts to hurt I would leave it alone.

    I may be biased because I am certainly on the small side, but I think that you don't have anything to hide or be worried about. And if a man has an issue with it, he doesn't deserve you :)

  • Trust me there is no reason to do this to your body your boobs are fine!

  • DD is not that big at all, especially at your height and weight. You probably look great and have nice proportions.

  • No matter what your body looks like, there is a man out there that will love it.

  • They are not gross.

  • No darling there just fine enjoy them if I were single I would show you how great they were that you wouldn't hate them anymore .

  • They are not gross.

    DD are large, but if they are proportional to your figure, they are fine.

    Their swaying is sweet to watch during Cowgirl; perhaps their greatest display.

    Gravity can take their toll on them and on your back so be well supported when you are up and around. Take care of your girls.

  • Umm, you sound beautiful from your description. I love large natural breasts. I am sorry if they give you pain or get in your way. Make sure you invest in good bras.

  • No, don't get rid of them. Guys like big boobs. Trust. Trust.

    • Only B cup or smaller...

  • DDs will get a good response from a lot of guys.

    You say they're not saggy... big boobs shouldn't be perky specifically BECAUSE that means they're fake. Nice big boobs have a certain slope to them. That's not the same as sag, mind you... there's a fullness and a weight to them that shows they're natural. Look up the nude model Shay Laren for an example of what I mean.

    As for reduction, I'd only consider that if you're experiencing pain and discomfort from your boobs.

  • I personally wouldn't like them, but I prefer the other extreme of liking small breasts and skinny girls.

    That said, many guys won't like the body type I go for but will love yours. Lets face it, if your going on a date with a guys, he knows you have huge boobs and likes you for it.

  • They aren't too big or gross guys love big t*ts.

  • Sorry, but this can not be a real question from a real woman. Plus there are no positive or favorable options on your poll.

    • So now I'm a man? I don't feel good about myself hence the lack of positive options. If you have something nice to say then you can type it.

  • With regard to boobs, just remember "bigger is ALWAYS better" and you'll never go wrong. Naturals are fine but if it takes implants to get there, do it! You won't regret it. If, however, you go the implant route just don't get 'em too small (anything under D is way too small).

    • Oh, and by the way, the more they hang the more delightful it is. They are there to be played with. We love a pair of huge, dangling, floppy boobs to play with and suck on. You sound absolutely perfect and any guy who gets you is probably extremely lucky. Do not even consider a reduction!!!

  • They sound nice, but I know your pain as far as embarrassment. In college baseball, all the guys would tease me that I needed a baseball helmet for a cup. The girls would stare... Learn to enjoy what you were given.

  • I'm 38DD and I think its not too big.

  • I personally don't like don't like big boobs but I don't thing big/hug boobs are gross just not for me.

    with out seeing them we can't say. you should be insecure about be happy with what you got.

  • Can you find a picture of a model or actress with a similar looking boobs? They could be incredibly hot or kind of gross and without any visual reference it'll be tough to say.

    Also, how tall are you and how much do you weigh?

    • Shay Laren? Damn! Those are some nice boobs! ;-) Not a 38DD though. Smaller in the band and bigger in the cup. Both good things! :P

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