What do you think about pole dance as a hobby?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend's been away for the last 2 months and he's finally coming home next weekend. As you can imagine we both can't wait to see each other, and I was thinking about surprising him with a little something. Anyway, a year ago I started a pole dance class, and I didn't tell him, which was an idiotic move on my side, but one of my friends had a boyfriend break up with her because of it and he said it was slutty, so when I met my guy later on I didn't tell him because I was scared of getting the same reaction. But now, I don't think he would mind it, so I was thinking of giving him a private dance, it would be to Angel by Massive Attack since it's "our" song (it would be something like this, but I'm not yet as good as she is link ). But now, as his arrival is approaching, I'm getting kind of nervous about his reaction. So guys, if your girlfriend had a hobby like this, would that bother you? Would you think it's slutty or sexy? Girls, please give your opinion too.

[Anonymous]

Everyone is different and some might think differently I guess but I personally think it's supper hot and cool of you to want to do that for him. If my girl did that for me I would probably ask her to marry me on the spot.

[Asker]

okay then, I should expect a proposal too lol

[betchimightbe]

What kind of guy breaks up with a girl who knows how to pole dance? He must be in the closet. It's definitely a sexy hobby!

[Asker]

he was an a**hole anyway lol

[mitzi]

If he needs you to pole dance after two months, I'd ask him where his pole has been all this time. Maybe he's been keeping in practice? Suggest you trust his natural reaction.

[Asker]

this is not a cheating issue, I really don't understand what does that have to do with anything

[pickledxtofu]

I personally think it's awesome and it's supposedly a great workout. I haven't mustered up the courage to take lessons but hopefully one day I will.

[Asker]

it's an amazing workout and it's fun, you should definitely go for it

[xHoneyxBeex]

I think it's sexy. You should definitely do it for your guy:)

[Asker]

will do, thanks :)

[Dionysos]

If you like it, rock it. You'll be great.

[Cottoncandydreams]

I would love to do it for fun!

you go girl :)

[tiredofwaiting]

It is sexy, if you like it do a private dance for your man.

[Anonymous]

I didn't read through the wall of text, but I'll never ever understand why the heck pole dancing is a some sort of a "fitness regimen" that's supposed to be "cool" and "awesome" ...just like I'll never understand the same thing about tattoo's, they are ugly and best kept on fat sailors

[pickledxtofu]

Pole dancing lessons =/= tattoos Anyone can take private or class pole dancing lessons. And if you look at the calories burned while doing it, it's ridiculous.

[Opinion Owner]

No the two are totally equal in my eyes; and the above is my honest opinion (as I've mever been an opinion w---- like so many users here)