Do guys want girls to act like Porn Stars in Bed?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend recently told me that he would prefer if I acted like a porn star in bed.Now I am open minded,i love trying new things,positions,role playing,watching porn w/him,oral(I do swallow),anal and etc.I am enthusiastic in bed cause I love sex,and I love trying new things,and I enjoy myself.But he says he would prefer I start acting like a porn star,which I don't understand what that means.How can I do that?And do most guys want their gf/wives or whoever to act like this?

[Kayaking]

I don't think you should act, at all.

The best sex is all about the uniqueness of a couple's energy and where that takes you. I don't get how asking you to copy being a ho is all that intriguing, or interesting. That makes it, well, just sex. You can get, and have, just sex with anyone. I would be concerned with him trying to objectify you.

[rocksongwriter]

"And do most guys want their gf/wives or whoever to act like this?"

No, I wouldn't. However everybody's different.

[dragonfli786351]

wait let me get this straight he "prefers" you to act during sex? and that's ok with you? well to each his own. Basically act like a horny slut, put on a lot of makeup, wear something very revealing (go on a porn store shopping trip for slutty lingerie) and exaggerate everything (moaning, positions, enthusiasm).

[peace-love-couture]

I think it comes down to preference.Some may,some may not.But think of this,most women don't expect men to act like the men in porn movies,so he shouldn't expect you to.Have him clarify what he means by act like a porn star,because if you are open to new things and adventurous,then what is the deal?

[Camilus]

Men pay good money just to watch porn stars having sex so yes, men like girls to act like porn stars in bed.

[JJonak87]

I have to say to me if I found a girl and was doing stuff with her that week or the month of when I met her I would like that. But the girl I dated for the last two years, I kinda like to explore more and do what we are most comfy with. Since we been together for two years plus we will try new things and if it works it works. So maybe one day you guys can role play a porn show and you guys might both enjoy it!

But I think every guy is a little bit diff. in bed...

[GoodDogNigel]

Ugh, no thanks. Not only would I not want them to do the "acts" the gals in porn do, the annoying fake noises... and the excessive swearing... SOOOOOO annoying.

[Anonymous]

Uh, wait a second here..

"Now I am open minded, i love trying new things, positions, role playing, watching porn w/him, oral (I do swallow), anal and etc. I am enthusiastic in bed cause I love sex, and I love trying new things, and I enjoy myself"

First let me respond with I love you.

Second, if he needs more than that then he just can't be happy. Move on. You are a Gem!