no need to bring it up if it doesn't come up.
yes I would absolutely date a camgirl, current or former.
fwiw I perform too so I have a different opinion/perspective from most. I've actually had real conversation with some girls that perform and have seen the good & bad. the good was talking to some girls with college degrees that spoke well. the bad was seeing a chick's profile pics with her boyfriend who had the gps ankle braclet... I've also had good conversations with the people who watch me. a couple of the girls/guys that watch me are actually really cool.
when it comes up, it comes up. if a guy can't deal with what you did/do or understand the why & how of it, then just move on. it is/was just a job or extra money.
some of the guy answers are just stupid... they are the same boys that think all strippers are hookers and crack whores. from just reading what else you have written, I can see they have no clue.
do your thing & find a guy that is fine with what you did in the past & what you do now. you paying for school is better than most of the girls that just use the money for vacations.
out of curiosity, what made you decide to stop? I have taken a couple weeks off at a time & understand the frustration of a**holes whose first/only words are 'FACE' 'ASS' 'CUM'.
Because I got enough money saved up for school now.There is no need to do it any longer.Your right the guys with ride comments just judge because they think they know everything there is to know about people. They refuse to look at a different view point. Congrats hope you save your money for something wise to:)
cool deal. :)
For me personally I would never date or marry anyone who ever participated in that ever. If I found it out after a couple of dates I no longer date her. If we'd been together a year I'd break up because that is a dealbreaker issue and for keeping it from me.
I'd say some guys won't care, some will (me for example) so I'd say always be honest. Don't ever try and get with a guy long term and keep this a secret. Be truthful and deal with whatever comes.
That being said, this isn't first date type of stuff. But if you start dating a guy regularly and you can see this going somewhere you should tell it to be honest and give the guy the chance to back out if it is an issue for him.
How long have you been doing it for?
Is it your only job?
Do you have a plan for stopping?
I wouldn't mention it on the first date.. if you don't hit it off that well, no point in telling him at all.
As for how soon, I guess that depends on a few things.
I would sincerely say "ah, really, camming? Oh, okay. Nice. But you don't intend to do it while in a relationship, do you? No? Ah, okay. =) So, what movie you want to watch later?"
I really don't see how must this affect on how any guy sees you .-.
If in doubt, don't. I personally would be upfront and if it bothers them then I guess they could just go do one to be honest. If they don't want to get to know you and just judge you then that is their problem and not yours. Good luck though :)
Thank you:)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!So, like, bring your biggest dildo with you on your date and just make it a threesome. It'll be a blast!
Uh, like, no. Don't just plan on killing the guy right off the bat. Like Dandeus said, see what the guy's like. You might be able to tell him right away or you may have to wait. Some guys may not want to hear it at all.
Duh I'm not gonna bring up my dildo I was telling details on here for people who didn't exactly know what I was talking about.So "like" lose your attitude because your not saint obviously.
Holy crap. Didn't mean to hit a nerve. Was just trying to be a little humorous, not even close to being judgmental. Apparently failed. Not the first time. Sure, I'm no saint... And, yes, I would have someone who used to webcam as my girlfriend. I just wouldn't expect that as a topic of conversation on a first date.
It wouldn't bother me. If it was a stripper, then it will be a different story.
I wouldn't mind that at all. Actually, it would turn me on because you are sexually confident. I wouldn't tell him on the first few dates tho. Wait and get to know him better. Once you get a feel for how open he is to things, I'm sure you will find the right time to tell the right guy! :)
I'd tell him because if he likes you and cares about you it will make no difference and if it is a problem for him your not wasting any more time with him and can be available for someone else
Truthfully most guys will not care about your past ... if they are truly into you. I would not say anything about camming on the first date. As you get to know him and he gets to know you that's when you can start giving details of your life. ... When your both comfortable with him. As long as your honest it will be fine ... :p
It's kind of like her sexual past. I'd a girl has had sex with numerous guys before me than so be it. As lomas I'm the only one who gets it now.
Same type of ing. I'd want her to stop if we were in a committed relation. If we were just dating, I doubt she would tell me that early on anyway but if she did, it wouldn't be a deal breaker. Wouldn't be necessarily a good thing but I wouldn't end it over tat
no need to bring it up. But if he likes you he won't care anyways when one day it does come up.
Sure. I doubt I'd ever know unless she told me.
I wouldn't date a cam girl, at least not in a serious relationship. Friends with benefits would be fine, but no further.
Well you wouldn't have a chance anyway.Because your lack of different views is your downfall:)
Get defensive and make assumptions all you like, I was fwbs with a camgirl for a while. I now have a great girlfriend who has never done any of that, most girls don't do that so no, it's not my downfall, it didn't limit my options that much. If you only want people to agree with you you shouldn't ask these kinds if questions.
good response thomas, I swear these threads are starting to sound like fishing for compliments and reassurances of bad behavior thats for DAMN sure.
Whoever that really likes you wouldn't mind dating you despite how messed up your past might have been,as long as you promise not to go back to it again while dating...
My past isn't messed up I'm sure yours is a lot worse by the way your claiming mine is.
Just giving an instance...well that was pretty rude
@QA he is giving an instance not directing your life is messed up chill
I would appreciate her honesty. But she wouldn't have to tell me unless she wanted too.
And it wouldn't bother me at all.
There are several instant deal breakers for me. But being a cam girl isn't one of them.
sure, there are some really sweet, smart, friendly, and charming girls who cam. I probably wouldn't bring it up the first few dates until you have a better idea of the guy, because some guys might make assumptions about it.
Would there be any wrong assumptions?
Thank you and no guys who judge this are just mad because they wouldn't have a chance with a cam girl.I haven't had sex with someone since a ex and that was ages ago.So before you judge learn your facts.You probably watch the same cam girls drooling over them:)
For vers btw
Dont have to tell everything about yourself on first few dates. Just see how the guy is like ...after you know him well you might want to test him out. Otherwise don't have to tell since it is your past
yeah that's what I'm going to do.wait to see.Jeez the men on this site must think any girl who works in any part of the sex industry will screw anyone.They are incorrect.There are so many type of girls even virgins who do this same job.
there are some judgmental people on this site
I see no reason to ever say anything about it. It is no big deal to me.
don't ask don't tell.
Is it in the past or does she still do it?
If its in the past, I wouldn't mind.
If she is still doing it, I would most likely be able to get over it as well.
There is somebody for everyone, and when you matter, your past doesn't.
Thank you Tabra:)
Personally I think that's hot but maybe save it for the 3rd or 4th date depending on the guy.
a real man doesn't judge I've had gfs that where excorets strippers and they where the best gfs
yeah you did? So what do you do for a living that makes you so open minded? People who are open especially towards strippers and escorts got a bad past themselves and thus would not be judgmental towards these types of women because there's a level ground between the two.
Who would I be to judge you? As long as your intentions towards me are sincere, there is no problem with your past.
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