What is a man who gets laid talk and act like?

[Danielp1989]

i haven't been with a women in 2yrs. I meet and be with women very scarcely. Last time I had sex it was with a fat girl because I was desperate. My friends are not as tall as me and as attractive but they got that something that all women are afraid to tell men and men don't want to give away. I just want to be free , happy and stop suffering. I hope some man or some women has some compassion and can feel my pain of always walking this dam earth alone. There are some definite Laws that take place in the male and female mating game. and its very hard to find out these truths because women will lie to you. so will your so called "brothers" who are supposed to embody truth and wisdom. I guess in the sex game there's allot of greed and lies and nobody wants to tell you "what is" Now imagine being single all your life throughout high school and not having the warmth of someone else till you hit 19...feel that for a moment! Then sleeping with a women you don't even like when you your 23. I know you men that are racking in 2-3 women a week would feel pitiful if you had the life I have. This is not the first time I've turned to my fellow man in search of truth, answers, and light. I've done this many times before and I don't want to hear women and there "respect talk" because I've followed this so called rule only to end up praying to Jesus every-night and wasting a box of tissues on p*rno. I also don't want to hear the "just be yourself" talk because I've tried all throughout high school and its not working. Lady even if you have to give up this precious "respect" you fight so hard for , if it means this man will hear the truth and be free of suffering, I want to hear it! And guys , stop being so enamored with your own success with women and help out your fellow brother. I just want to be happy. What are women the way they are? why does the mating game have to be a battlefield? what principles should I embody so I can get past all the lies and bullish and just have a good sex life? do girls like sex and does talking about sex make them want you?. what does a man who gets laid have to talk and be like even against all the odds and lies?

[Tarvold]

I admire your openness with your post and so I'm going to impart as much of what I know as possible.

Firstly, your direct questions:

Women are they way they are, because women screw each other over with petty mind games - don't stress about it.

Mating game has to be a battlefield because it is a fight for life - if you don't get laid, your genes die.

Principals? this is a tough one, we'll come back to it later.

Girls love great sex at least as much as guys, if not more. The key word there is great sex. Never forget that. If you think beautiful women wield a lot of power in this world, just wait until you see how much power a man with great bedroom technique has. Unfortunately, 99% of men suck in bed.

Men who gets laid easily have our own problems to deal with, so when we get together, we talk a lot about those things - crazy ex's, how threesomes almost never lives up to the fantasy, why we're all quitting Facebook, etc, etc. It can sometimes be a lonely life too, because you get to experience a lot of things that your other friends don't even believe is possible, and they build up a lot of resentment towards you, and you start getting frustrated at seeing ways that they can improve, but they just won't listen.

For me, the moment I transcended from being a guy who didn't have a clue about women to someone who can get laid easily was almost like the moment Neo became The One. One moment, I believed in a whole set of rules about the world, and the next I realized that they were all bullshit and that a different set of truths exist. The key ones are - women like and want sex at least as much as men, women are constantly giving men signals to proceed,it is only our blindness that we don't see these signs and it is our duty as men to constantly chase women - not chasing a beautiful, intelligent woman is an insult to her, and most importantly, all this desire and signals from women are deliberately hidden because society has a really really bad habit of slut shaming women, and women have a built in need to be competitive with each other.

So... back to principals on being a successful and ethical male slut? First and foremost, we must see past the bullshit of society, and not be judgmental of women's desires - they have to deal with enough bitchiness from other women as it is. Then, we've just got to walk through the doors that they're opening for us. It's really all just about reading the right signs and being a tactful, non judgmental gentleman throughout the process. Never be afraid to proceed, because more often than not, they want it more than you do, and even if they don't, the worse you are doing is giving the woman the biggest of compliments. And if one day you become one of the lucky few who've figured out how to be truly great in bed, a whole new world of possibilities open up for you... but that's for a different discussion.

Have fun, don't be an asshole, and respect a woman's boundaries.

[daniiel112]

Get some confidence and stop blaming the world for your lack of a sex life. Go out to some bars or community events and get involved to meet women. Sure you might strike out here and there but that is life. Women don't just fall out of the air into your bed. And if you do get into a conversation with a women don't mention your lack of a sex life. Being needy and having low self esteem are terrible turn offs. Women prob stay away from you thinking you'll be the needy stalkerish type. Be your own man. Give it as shot. Can't be worse then what you are doing now.

[tiredoftrying]

Maybe you are not as attractive as you think you are because that really is what matters most.

[Danielp1989]

honesty is a divine policy.

[Anonymous]

Good god. Women like confident men. Give me your phone number and I will coach you.

[Danielp1989]

7189285924 (call me tomorrow since its deactivated because I haven't paid it and I ill activate it tomorrow around 12)

[abundantlyrich]

if it's the last resort, some guys resort to prostitutes for a therapeutic lay. That may be one option for you to consider.

[Anonymous]

They usually look like Channing tatum

[Anonymous]

He acts like he's rich and talks like he's rich

[Tarvold]

That's bullshit. Only those with bad game use money to their advantage.

[Opinion Owner]

And yet it works every time

[Anonymous]

Please get some self esteem

[Danielp1989]

ok?

[Anonymous]

Be confident and charismatic. Also groom yourself as well as possible, because no matter what society or whoever tells you, looks DO matter. People generally respond more positively to people who are attractive.

[Danielp1989]

ok cool

[Anonymous]

he acts like he is the king of the world

[Danielp1989]

hmmm ok