What does it mean if your friends with benefits ignores you?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy, and started a casual relationship with him. We had great sex and we got along pretty well. After sleeping with him a few times, I thought I was catching feelings for him and let him know. He said the same "I don't want a relationship" garbage, so I made plans to move on and told him as such. He said that he was sure "I'd help him along the way". I realized that I might've jumped the gun, so I tried talking to him about it, but he ignored me. We talked the next day and planned to hook up, and we did the next day. I told him that I just got caught up in my emotions and I really just wanted to have sex with him, I just really like his wang lol. He said he didn't answer me because he knew feelings were there and didn't want to lead me on and he's usually a relationship person and doesn't like fooling around because a girl got hurt by him once and she was "crazy." I told him I'd been in the same position and that a guy just got a girlfriend and just stopped talking to me. I told him that if we're going to be doing something like this, he had to stop asking me to have sex with him without a condom because it was something that I'd only do with someone I was with long term. I never told him, but it confused me that he wouldn't just ask me to leave after we had sex, he was very polite, we'd cuddle for a long time in between sex and he would show things off to me. So it seemed like we were building a connection. He told me that next time he'd come to me and that we'd have more time together, and even grab a beer sometime. I wasn't sure if I wanted to continue things because I was leaving for a week and finals were the week after, so I went along with it and said okay. That whole week, we didn't speak, not even a "Happy Thanksgiving". Finals week, we didn't speak, because of well, finals. So after they were over, I wanted to invite him out to go out to the bars with friends and have a drink to celebrate, but was unsure if it would be right to do so. I sent him a "hey" around 2 today to invite him, but he never answered. What the hell?

[Anonymous]

Friends with benefits, created by two guys asking a female friend if she fancied sex, she said she didn't want to ruin the friendship, they said that they would be friends with benefits, she ended up being dumped and hurt and used, they ended up feeling like studs. This is basically everything a friends with benefits is, it benefits the guy only, so why any girl would agree is beyond me, because if you don't respect yourself, how do you expect a guy to respect you? and by having a friends with benefits is not showing any guy you have self respect, so really, you knew this was going to happen, you just hoped it wouldn't!

[Moobacca]

It means he's not interested anymore. You were just fuck buddies, walk it off.

[Cromartie]

This must be a major blow to your ego.