My wife asked me if I would wear a thong for her.

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I told her I would she just had to go and get me one. She came home with a red lacy one that looked like one I would want to see her in. But I put it on for her and now she's trying to get me in bras and stripper shoes and she said she would like to see me all dressed up like a women wig and make up the hole 9 yards I don't know where she's going with this but she said it would true her on and she has asked me more then a time or two if she could use a strap on on me.I don't know what to do and I would like to know if its just my wife into this or if there's more girls out there that would like their guy to do this for them

Littletad · Accepted Answer

K first of all what's a Tong? I immediately thought of Toga and looked up Tong on Google, but nothing about clothes came up?

Anyhow, I'm not sure what's up with your wife. Is she having a male fetish? The strap on gives her the feeling of being a man, in control. So she might have some sort of domineering fetish. I think it's sick and a little weird, since she's literally asking you to play the female role. I'm not being sexist, I'm being practical about it. Talk to her about it, maybe she can do this with a close female friend of hers rather than with you.

HayleMary · Accepted Answer

I think your wife may be going down a different kinky path than you are. You may have to find some way to get around everything if it (and from the way you are describing it) because it may just render you unable to perform. I know that I would have stopped her thought process long before the strap-on came into the picture.

dragonfli786351 · Accepted Answer

no I'm not into that. It seems your wife is into being dominate, and she neglected to tell you before hand. Talk to her about it, and if you don't feel comfortable with any part of it let her know. She should be able to respect your choice in wanting to or not wanting to.

blueyedgrll · Accepted Answer

I would not. I think anything feminine on a male is creepy and a total turn off. I like a manly man and thongs, makeup,heels, and bras are the farthest thing from that.

xxangel1990xx · Accepted Answer

There will be more girls that are into that stuff but I think it's weird, how can having your man dress up as woman be a turn-on?!? I don't get it.

irthonger · Answer

Well, does it bother you or are you up to trying it out. Really it is up to you. I know i am open to whatever. I love my wife and would do anything for her.

mav0502 · Answer

Go for it and have some fun. why not try it and see if you like it? think of a kinky thing that you would like her to do or you do to her in return. its all about give and take and you never know if you like it or not until you try it. keep an open mind and if she is into it and it makes the relationship with her better why not. who is it really hurting anyway?