Guys would you consider me a slutish girl?

Question

well I'm 19 & few months ago this other guy & I started sexting. we've never met & he lives in another country. anyhow we sexted for a month or so sent each other naughty videos & pics. I honestly do not regret any of it, but he has put an end to it but we still keep contact. anyhow I'm still a virgin & never been touched sexually by a guy (I just never felt comfortable to be touched like that) but I've made out before. this guy actually encouraged me to f*nger myself for the 1st time. I don't want to sext with a friend or anyone I know to avoid awkwardness. & I sext cos I get horny too you know I'm just not ready for sex yet. anyhow if a girl just sexts with you & send you naked pics of herself & she tells you she's a virgin & so on would you believe her? or would you think she's actually just a slut? I'm just wondering

HandsomeRaj · Accepted Answer

To each his own perception.

I don't think what you are doing is slutty. You have certain rules and principles in your life and you follow them.

I've known tons of women who have done everything but intercourse to save it for the special day / person etc. Now it's a matter of perception how one looks at it. There have been times that their special person has discovered that they've done certain things (even as innocuous as you have) but saved their virginity for him/her and they yet got offended. Hence, it's a matter of perception.

I don't even consider gold diggers as sluts. For me being a slut is a profession and that's that :)

martyfellow · Accepted Answer

I'd take you at face value. Why lie to someone you don't really know, who lives in another country?

Whom you're not even planning to meet? There would be no reason to fake your sexual experience, or lack of it.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

No. You are a virgin who sexted with one guy and masturbated (like almost everyone does). That doesn't make you "sluttish" and is a long way from the definition of promiscuous.

AuroraRoseat · Accepted Answer

A slut is a wo/man who has a significant number of sexual encounters. You don't fit that definition, so no.

RideMyNorthFace · Answer

No, your a long, long, long way from being sluttish. Actually, you sound like a lot of fun to me.

Justaskme88 · Answer

Definetly not slutty. Its a lot like live interactive  p*rn  i say lol. If you like it then i vote keep doing it lol. I kinda wish i had something like that. No ties just fun lol

meme821 · Answer

I'm supposed to trust and believe anything you tell me same as you're supposed to do me if we've been talkin and that's the way a relationship works trust communication it's very important the most important and honesty trust communication and honesty is what makes up relationship if you don't have those three things you don't have a relationship really that's the way I feel maybe someone knows something different than me