Pegging is simply one more way for couples to find pleasure in bed.
Men have a Prostate gland, which when stimulated, can provide intense pleasure and orgasms 10x more powerful than a normal orgasm - that is their motivation for anal stimulation.
Women can enjoy switching roles and running the show. They can also enjoy providing their partner with amazing amounts of pleasure. And some women can reach orgasm while pegging.
So - there is a lot of incentive to explore pegging for both the man and the woman. Pegging gives you the chance to take a walk in your partners shoes, sexually, which many times results in deepening intimacy due to compassion and understanding.
The most common misconception about pegging is that men who enjoy it are gay. Incorrect. The area of your body that you enjoy having stimulated has no bearing on the gender you prefer to do the stimulating. Plus, only about 35% of gay men even have anal sex, so everyone would do well to let go of the old, tired assumption that men who enjoy anal stimulation must be gay.
The next most common misconception is that it hurts. Not when done correctly, if fact not only does it not hurt, but it can provide intense pleasure for the man.
I do it. I teach about it. I write about it. I love it.
Anal Masturbation? Try Aneros toys - for solo prostate stimulation.
And here is an article for anal newbies approaching male anal play as a couple: link
1.) I'm open to it (neutral) As long as he has no further intentions to be with a man! aha
2.) Lube, massaging, gentle licks, go slow, wash/bleach asshole practice with at dildo ect...
Push out like you're having a bowel movement. Don't be afraid of this. The sphincter is like a one-way valve. It only "opens" when pushing because that's the direction things normally come out. Once well lubricated, with you relaxed and pushing outward against a toy , it should slide right in with little (if any) discomfort - but only when you're ready! It may feel uncomfortable at first, but if it's painful, you're still trying to go about to quickly.
Make sure your hands are clean, fingernails short and any rough edges filed off. There's lots of bacteria in the anus, it belongs there. Bacteria from dirty hands can mess up the balance of what belongs, and a scratch to delicate anal tissue can get infected and irritated from natural anal bacteria or bacteria from outside.
You are half way there, just being curious!! Most 'straight' guys are TERRIFIED at their NATURAL, and TOTALLY NORMAL feelings about anal play. Loving anal play won't 'make you gay', and there is NOTHING wrong with being gay, but the point is, it is YOUR BUTT, and you can love touching, probing, or letting someone put something of theirs in you!!
It FEELS AMAZING, if you RELAX!! If you want to experience it, and want to know how AMAZING it can be, alone, with your own fingers, or a toy, or a girlfriend with a strap-on, or even a best guy friend, when you are a little drunk, and feeling giddy!
It's easiest to learn the sensations, and how your body responds just masturbating alone with a toy, just inserting it, and experiencing the feelings. Once you know how you respond, you can feel more joy with a partner, a girl with a strap on, or maybe just a good friend, with a real penis!! You won't get pregnant, so just enjoy it!!
You are not 'Gay' masturbating and playing with your bottom, or even having a girlfriend put a big penis-shaped toy in you, or believe it or not, even a REAL penis!!
It's just discovery, and exploration of how you feel and what you find enjoyable!
It's kind of ironic, as NONE of my Homosexual, guy friends do anal, at all!!!
My wife and I have been pegging for a long time. It drives my wife nuts to peg me. She gets dripping wet when she put on her 8" strap-on; because she knows my ass is hers. as far as tips/tricks to make anal masturbation even more pleasurable than it already is. It's hard to answer with out knowing what your doing. I would suggest buying a Dildo with a suction cup base; slap that thing on a hard smooth surface lube it up and go nuts.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I love it and cannot wait to do it with a man...im a very dominant female but i find extreme sensuality in it...as long as he is straight
Let me know if you're ever in NYC
Lol I'll be moving to Delaware soon
FYI - I have a car!!!
Just gotta explore the world, my friend.
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