Getting fingered...

[Anonymous]

What should I expect when getting fingered for the first time? I would like input from both guys and girls.

[beachbabe61793]

my boyfriend just fingered me for the first time today and I was how you are.start off by laying right next to him or you can lay down and have sit right behind you and lean over you to reach. you guys can also have you lay down and spread your legs and have him sit down by your vagina. just be comfortable with how you guys are laying. he will just either stick his hands down your pants or pull them down and he will stick one finger up first and then move it around and stuff. you tell him if you arnt comfortable with it and he can stop. once you both get comfortable then he will put more fingers in and move them in and out a couple times. mine started off going slow in and out then he picked up the speed over time. once it started t hurt I had him stop. but while he is fingering him you can just relax and let him do what he needs/wants to do or you too can make out or kiss a little. it is kinda awkward just laying there with your pants down and your legs open and spread apart with your guys fingers in you. at least I thought it was. we just kissed and stuff this time. just relax and enjoy every minute of it. there's nothing to worry about.

[MlleCake]

I would say, this is pretty good. I only want to add that having some silicone based lube can be very helpful if you're feeling nervous. Wet Platinum is available at CVS, Rite-Aid and Walgreens, and most large drugstore chains. Or find it online. Show your guy what feels good to you. It's your body. Only do what feels good.

[Nikkii98]

If you've never touched yourself before, you could probably expect it to hurt a little. Have him start off with one finger, and make sure YOU are comfortable. Don't let him push you into doing it too quickly. You'll need to be relaxed too. From then on, it's really just what your best judgment is, and how far you want to go with it. If something doesn't feel good, let him know. And if it does, you really need to let him know[;

[17again]

My first time hurt a lot. I would recommend telling whoever is fingering you to be gentle.

[Anonymous]

well first make sure your shaved haha. and its all good. lay next to each other or sideways. when my boyfriend used to finger me, id always be halfway laying on him on my side and he'd just go in my pants. it is a little awkward just laying there so kiss a little or maybe talk. just be relaxed and enjoy!