My best guy friend and I drunkenly made out, twice.

[Anonymous]

The first time it was fairly innocent. He crashed at my apartment because he was too drunk to get home by himself. I gave him a blanket and pillow for the couch, but he ended up in my bed with me. We kissed for a while and then went to bed. It was playful and gentle. That morning I said something about not regretting things I do when drunk, and then he said, "Good. Because we totally made out last night." We felt okay about it. It felt good not to be alone. The second time we were drinking in my apartment and watching stuff on Netflix. Eventually, he started making out with me. We decided to go to bed. I had basically already made up my mind that he could share my bed. He did. We kissed and held each other. He talked to me about wanting his chest/nipples paid attention to, and I told him that I heard that was one of the most commonly ignored male erogenous zones. So I paid some attention to that part of him. I'm a naturally giving person. I wanted him to be happy. I care about him. Then he was straddling me. I laughed because the situation was humorous. I told him that I never knew how responsive a guy's nipples could be. He then took my hand and placed it on his dick so I could feel how hard he was. From there, I let him ... return the favor, I guess. We kissed some more and went to bed. In the morning, he was extremely hungover. I was fine. I tend to handle alcohol well. We haven't talked about what happened. I'm beginning to wonder if he remembers at all. I don't know if I should bring it up or let it lie. The thing is that neither of us are in the place to want a romantic relationship with the other. We really are just better as friends. And I know he's on the same page. I honestly don't mind what we've been doing. Like, just on my end of things. I am very comfortable with him. I know he cares about me. And I want him to be happy. If I can give him happiness, I'm okay with that. I just don't know if it's wrong to think this way. It's okay. You can tell me if you think I'm delusional.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I'm sure he remembers. Whether this relationship will stay where you think it is - is another story altogether. You'll end up having sex, one will develop feelings, it will get messy and end poorly.

[Anonymous]

Wait, so did you full on jack him off? And did he make you come with his fingers?

[Asker]

No, we stayed at second base.

[Opinion Owner]

So you got your boobs out, because that would be second base. But your hand on his hard on is technically third base. Actually, you jacking him off would also be 3rd base still.

[Asker]

Yeah but I only touched it from the outside of his clothes. Pants stayed on. And it was only for less than a second. So I don't really think that counts as third base.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you're right. Doesn't count. I thought you were full on copping a feel and rubbing his penis from outside his pants and possibly sticking your hand in there and grabbing a handful! lol! But you got topless and let him feel and suck on your boobs? How was that? I'm surprised you guys managed to stop before getting one another to cum.

[katiesmuff]

I'm not even sure I understand who did what to who?

[daniiel112]

Drunken relationships based on sexual gratification don't always turn out great. But it's up to you to keep doing it.

[greyhorse]

You people are so cute! And believe me I am getting jealous :P Why should not I have you as my friend :D I am too very caring and loving :/