Do guys know when to stop fingering a girl?

The other night my boyfriend and I were messing around and he was fingering me and after I had came several times I was very sensitive and he just wouldn't stop touching me and I couldn't stand it. He does this every time, he won't stop until I say I need to stop and go pee. Can guys tell when to stop or no?
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  • Just say I'm getting kind of sore love I need a break but ya you must express yourself it seems your doing that now so when others are saying a guy can't read your mind that's true, however by saying I gotta go pee your not trying to let him try to read your mind that's pretty clear you want things to seize so you can possibly pee, or get a break just be straight forward with him instead of saying next time I gotta pee just be blunt and say I'm getting sore, and say it every time you've had enough finger manipulation good luck sweetie! :D

    • P.S. If you say that every time it will make your partner naturally more aware of your needs and how long naturally to take his fingering with you it makes more a much more observant lover I believe he's just not as observant of how long he's doing things with you communication and body language say a lot in the bedroom!

  • No. You have to communicate with him if you expect him to know when to stop.

    • I know but I'd think me squirming all over more than usual would be a good sign to stop

    • See, that is screwed up woman logic. You don't say what you want and then get mad at a guy for not being able to read your mind.

    • I'm not mad I just feel bad telling him to stop

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  • I have a boyfriend and I have to tell him to stop. And I totally understand, you can't know when to stop cause..what would you look for? Haha the only sign for him to know when to stop would be to say stop :P

  • Well, if you give more obvious signs, or ask to pee, as you did, he will know... But he can't simply guess what goes on your mind, right? :P

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  • You said you came several times...is he supposed to somehow know that 3 is enough and 4 is too many?

    How is he supposed to know unless you TELL him?

    As a general rule, guys cannot read minds.

  • NO, you must tell him!

  • somewhere around the time she said "get the hell away from me, dad"