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How do I ride my boyfriend without being shy?

Every time me and my boyfriend have sex he does all the work and after we finish he ask if I'm going to ride him and I tell him no so he gets mad... Show More

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  • First, only do it if you want to. But do try and be brave - most women really prefer it because you can control depth and movement (and the delicious grind). Plus he can caress and touch you with his hands way more effectively this way, which you will both enjoy. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised!

    There are ways to address your demure shyness. Try it under the covers the first time and lie against him (his head should be propped on a pillow or two). This will keep you from being too visible and it is more intimate.

    • (totally different girl) are you sure that works? because like, I try and everything, and I love riding but I can't do it the way I want to. I'm a super freak but I can't express it, and he can't tell, because I can't express it

    • The only thing I'm sure about is that women are all different in their sexual response. But self consciousness is usually an O killer for females, and forward cowboy is the most exposure of you to him. But let me say this - if you let yourself get a little selfish and find your groove, you begin moving against him in a way that he knows you are ascending - and there is NOTHING sexier or more pleasurable for a man than feeling and seeing her let go and take his sex...

What Guys Said 5

  • Blindfold him, or yourself, or both. (FUN!)

  • Try reading a sex book or maybe even watching porn with him. You have to start getting over your fears little by little. Take baby steps. Your over 18 and have nothing to worry about anymore, you have a boyfriend, not just some random guy. You should want to please him, not be scared of intimacy.

  • If you are too shy for sex, masturbation or celibacy is about all you have left. Perhaps you should wait a couple more years to become sexual.

  • If you are shy with lights on, try having sex by candlelight.

What Girls Said 1

  • My boyfriend is one of those guys that talk about sex all the time but gets all shy when it comes down to it i wana ride hime but how do. I go about it any tips

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