I would not say that you are lacking anything. I mean I wouldn't know without having testing the equipment ;-).
But few things, and none are bad.
Never judge two guys in that department. They will not be the same. And if you only have two to compare, that is not a lot to compare. Many different reasons could come into play.
Your ex might have been more comfortable with you versus your new guy. This could play a BIG part in "how fast".
Guys have things that run through our minds when we get naked infront a woman for the first time also.
Some guys just take longer to come from oral than others. Some can't come at all from oral from what I hear. And some have better control over the nut than other guys. Personally, I can get close, tell her I am and if she stops, she stops and works it up again. If she wants a mouth full she gets one right now. So even though I do get close multiple times, I can too prolong it for 20,30,40 minutes until she is ready to take it or I can't handle it any longer.
But you get frustrated because it was taking longer than you "thought" it would take. Now I will tell you the same thing I tell guys out here that sex is not a race. It should not be rushed. This question I answered was regarding to a guy going down on a woman. Same scenario, just reversed. But the point still holds true.
I would not worry about the first few times with him. Give him a few to get comfortable. If it doesn't change, then it just may be him, or him wanting to lye back and enjoy it for a bit. If he said you made his eyes roll to the back of his head, than it sounds like there is not a problem. ;-).0 0 0 0he told you that he loved it... and from what you described he isn't lying
it isn't about your skills, their obviously good enough for him.
the time he lasts is almost exclusively his own stamina, nothing to do with you0 0 0 0
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Maybe but whatever it is I doubt it is anything you did or didn't do!
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1 7Some guys just take a long time to get off. Sex for me usually lasts upwards of if not over an hour without even trying. Last time I got sucked off it also took some time, but it wasn't a negative. I just laid back and enjoyed it. Just because it doesn't happen quickly doesn't mean it isn't a good experience.
0 0 0 0I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Stop over thinking. Yeah, if he clears the chambers before getting with you, it will make the bj last longer.
0 0 0 0Some guys just take a while to come with oral. Just don't stop, and ask him to tell you What's good and What's not. Also I LOVE it when a woman lightly plays with my balls while she is giving me head. Work on the deep throat and no teeth at all.
0 0 0 0If you're excited about practicing your bj technique, I can guarantee you 99% of guys would LOVE to get blown by you.
0 0 0 0no that means he really enjoyed it id love a girl like u
0 0 0 0It really boils down to the guy. There really aren't many ways to give a bad blow job.
0 0 0 0no not at all
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Look, it's this simple. You're over thinking this. You don't necessarily suck. In fact if you can make him come from oral alone, you're really good at it. Some guys just can't get off from oral. Some guys are really hard to get off, period.
Stop thinking about it. You're fine.0 0 0 0In a nutshell, this.
Agreed
"if you can make him come from oral alone, you're really good at it." This is great news! : )
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