Are Asian women attracted to black men?

[TheReturnofDre]

Ok well, I've had a good experience with an Asian girl before an I certainly find myself more attracted to them now than ever. What's the chances of one of them liking a guy such as myself?

[archer86]

The key is appearance and personality. Whenever brothas come off as gangster and aggressive, it defeats any chance of success and they go back the their countries telling horror stories about us just as their culture and media back home portrays us as. If we use our hard earned education, speak like civilized men (not like white folks, just civilized) and dress up in, oh, say business casuals, then they love us. I'm not talking about Asian-Americans, they are a completely different animal (no pun) because they have been Americanized. I mean the Asians that got off the plane last night and here from the Orient.

I think your tattoos might be a turnoff to many of them. Better make up the difference in money, clothes, food (trust me, if you can cook them up dinners, it works), and a very friendly atmosphere. Most Asians here in America are very traditional and conservative, particularly the East Asians (Japanese, Chinese, Taiwanese, Koreans). The Southeast Asians are more liberal.

Now, getting a one-night stand with Asians will NOT happen. Despite the old song, "Me Love You Long Time", they are not so easy to pick up.

Good luck young man

[Anonymous]

Who isn't?

One of my best friends in high school was a guy that had a Filipino mother and his dad was black. He was in the military when they met coincidentally.

[Daph81]

I'm 100% asian, born and raised in Asia. Being surrounded by the standard of beauty that promotes white, pale skin as beautiful, I never thought I would ever be attracted to black men. Even though I had black friends all throughout childhood. Until one day when a black guy approached me, I decided to give him a chance. I was immediately attracted to his personality, and from there was also attracted to him.

Generally speaking, I don't think most Asian girls are attracted to black men. Sorry, but I was being honest. Especially the ones who grew up in Asia. Asian-Americans, or someone who have lived a long time in another culture, like myself, might be more open to dating black guys. I consider myself color blind now.

[TheReturnofDre]

Thank you, I'm just looking for an honest answer :)

[Daph81]

thanks for the BA! =) Good luck!

[kangaru]

plus 1

[Daph81]

thanks girl!

[kangaru]

welcome you have spot on :))

[archer86]

I wish there were more women like you; Asian or otherwise. Where are you from? Regrettably, you have no pics, I bet you are a hottie ;). I like your way of thinking and praise you for giving a brotha a chance instead of keeping to such hardcore stereotype thinking. I wish the best for your future

[Daph81]

I live in Germany. Well, to be honest, he looked pretty good, tall, looks strong, and looks smart. He's American, in Germany because he got sent here by the military. Didn't look gangsta at all. So...yeah haha

[pickledxtofu]

My roommate is Chinese American, she's traditional but a total hipster.

She IS attracted to white and black men (less so Hispanic) but she told me she would prefer a Chinese man to marry so that they can communicate with her family and parents.

But she was talking to an African guy at one point. And then a white guy. But now she's not talking to anyone.

Her dad doesn't care, but she said initially her mom asked her to only date Chinese boys. Now her mom is telling her to just date anyone, regardless of race. She really wants to marry her off I guess

[TheReturnofDre]

Uh...ok?

[pickledxtofu]

So some are, some aren't...it's individual. I'd say a majority aren't

[TheReturnofDre]

I figured that.

[archer86]

What if the black man is like myself: Majoring in Geography, Minoring in East Asian Studies, studies both Japanese and Chinese languages. Only the other guy is taller and better looking than myself (they always are...heheh). Ask your roommate if that would be highly considered. If a man is going through the effort to learn your culture, why not eh?

[pickledxtofu]

Because you're still not apart of their culture? And people are allowed preferences

[xuanxliu]

I'm also 100% asian. My first crush was half black when I came to the US at nine years old. So physically it's very possible, but you gotta be pretty amazing and have unique characteristics.

But that was one of the only 2 black person I ever found attractive.

[marlowstevens]

Even asking that question shows a bias..not for black men but for Asian Women. It's almost like you believe that every women from Asia is exactly the same...there are more College Educated Women from Asia than the US and Asian Women are more advanced sexually than most. Read a bit more about sex at sexthefacts.info

[John83]

I have a black friend who married a Chinese girl, so I would say yes.

[kangaru]

i can't speak for all Asian women, but I can only speak for myself...right now I am not attracted to black guys (sorry I am not discriminating) . however, I told myself before I can never be certain, one day if there is one with a good personality I might be with him :)

[Daph81]

the personality is way more important than the color of the skin hehe =)

[kangaru]

yes :) infact I find black guys more daring, at least they dare to approach me but not causcian men

[laseredandpierced]

they might be, when they are into big willies

[dolfan13]

do bears shit in the woods?

[TheReturnofDre]

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

I think that all Asian women are different and they have their own standards and what they find attractive in men. I have mostly seen an Asian woman with white man or Asian man and in some rare cases black man but it is extremely rare. in fact I have seen more Hispanic man with Asian woman compare to a black man with an Asian woman that just shows how rare it is.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the Asian girl

[Anonymous]

If they're a fob , most likely no

If they grew up here then yeah