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What are signs a guy is using you for sex?
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What are signs a guy is using you for sex? Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 or 4 months now. I'm his first girlfriend. Me and my best friend Hannah have been hanging out with him ever since last year in English class and lunch. He didn't really have any friends except one I think but we all just continued to hang out lunch/English class. This year, which is his last year, asks me to homecoming, bakes me cookies for me and only me, find out he likes me, admits he likes me in front of my friends when asked by my friend, then asks me to be his girl. He's a gentleman. Fast-forwarding, there's these guys that pick on me in one of my classes, my boyfriend wanted to know who they were and I didn't want to tell them because it would start trouble. He said to at least tell him his name and I said "How do you know I'm not making up some random name?" He said "Because I trust you and know you won't betray me." One time, we were having a tickle fight and he would get paranoid and scared lol at first because I would put my hand near his side which I would say “I’m not going to tickle you” and he believes me and let’s my hand go to his side then I tickle him AGAIN lol. I said “You fall for it every time” which he said “That’s because I trust you”. Another time, I wanted to tell him something important that I felt guilty about since it was something personal about him and embarrassing that I told my friends. I just wanted to let it out and stop feeling guilty. He really wanted to know which he paused the movie we were watching. I said he will get mad which he said he won’t “Whenever I look at you, I calm down”. He also said “I will tell you something if you tell me it”, so he told me “To be honest, Whenever you’re walking, I stare at your ass sometimes-“(forgot what he said). So I told him finally and he didn’t get mad which he said “Don’t be afraid to tell me anything alright?” I’m not sure if I should trust him. I keep thinking of what happened in the past with my exes. Some used me, cheated on me, lied to me, betrayed me, wanted sex. I mean at least EVERY guy wants sex but I’m worried he is ONLY dating me for sex. Whenever we are kissing/cuddling, he doesn’t touch me inappropriately nor ever said he wants to have sex with me not even brought up sex in a conversation which I put my hand under his shirt whenever we are making out/kissing but he never ever does it to me. Sometimes we are on top of each other (not naked) and just make out. I told him we aren’t having sex and he seemed to accept it. We hung out today at his aunt’s house which he kissed my forehead. I’m just worried he is just like the other guys.
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