My boyfriend is obsessed with his cock! (Red flag?)

Really, he is obsessed with it. And I am starting to think it's a red flag. When him and I met (first time hanging out), he whipped it out and put my hand on it. I didn't want it! When he gets drunk, he talks about it's size to me and some of my friends. I hate this and it's embarrassing. Although he is fairly large, why does he need to be so obsessed with it? Is it because he is insecure? -
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  • This is more of your choice to what you want to do about it.

    If he wants to be involved with his D majority of the time, he should really consider his hand.

    I think there's a really slight chance it involves insecurity, however he really need to stop that crap. There is no point to talk about his D unless its to a doctor, or himself.

    He's desperate, so tell him to chill out with that or its through.

    This is your choice to either change him, or leave him.

  • So how about you give him a serious talk? Let him know how that is bad, you don't like it, and here are the consequences if it persists.

    Give that a shot.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I cannot make assumptions, I do not know him.

    But he has every right to be proud of his body part.

    It's not like he's drunk all of the time ? right?

    So, if not its bareable since he's not speaking about it daily.

    • He speaks about it almost everyday! ha

    • :-O. Well, I don't think he can simply "stop" doing that if it's a habit of his. Have you tried talking to him about it?

  • Well, maybe you should tell him to knock it off. And that if he doesn't then your never having intercourse with him again.

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  • Yes, he is insecure. Just tell him to save his magic wee wee for you and you alone.

  • Talk to him and ask, let him know how you feel too. Tbh a lot of girls shut down the idea a guy might have a big dick as soon as he talks about it. he might feel he needs to prove to keep his ego up?

  • He sounds too sexual

    • Yeah and this makes me wonder if he will cheat!

    • If you have doubts then break it off & get a guy with more manners. I don't think whipping it out when you first meet is appropriate

  • Ditch the boy and find a man

    • Yeah! I don't talk about my d*** all the time. Often I worry about ladies getting scared when they see my hard-on through my pants. The worst thing I could do is verbally mention it.

  • What a self obsessed toolbag