Why so guys take advantage of girls who suck their penis?

[heavenlyangel2]

Why do some guys see girls not worth it after the girl suck their penis ? My cousin in law moved into her boyfriend house as soon as they started dating and she was spending money on him and helping him pay the bills but she paid most of it. Less than 4 weeks of being there she had sex with him. She sucked his penis and he took advantage of her from that point on for her money and to get sex. Less than 6 weeks of dating him, she bought him the brand new games and some clothes. For a year she was being used and everybody knew it except her. His family will pretend to like her but never did. Honestly I don't think they even knew each other before time. For a whole year she been sucking him as part of sex. But it was all about sex from what she was telling me. They had sex every night. She told me she thought sex would make him stay. She sucked him less than 6 weeks of dating. I was wondering how her lips got so big

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Sucking his penis was the least of her worries. She moved this man into her house less than a month after they met. I find it hard to believe that a man who moved in with a strange woman so quickly had his own stable living situation. So basically she moved in with a homeless man.

It was his intentions all along to shack up with her for money and sex. Sucking dick was such a low priority on this. The biggest thing is that she moved this loser in her house and spends all this money on her and you're asking about giving head? Worried about the wrong things...

[heavenlyangel2]

She moved in his house. He still have his 2 jobs and a car. She barely have one job. All she do is be concerned about him more than the job. She got lazy in the army. All that is going to him

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Well reverse that. He probably sees her as a loser. Who moves in with someone less than a month after meeting them? I don't know too many responsible women with their shit together who does that. He sees that she's a sucker and he's taking advantage

[heavenlyangel2]

My point exactly. He made it known to the internet world what he was doing before it came to reality lol

[Hamburgers]

Lmao. I'm assuming you're young and inexperienced. This has nothing to do with him receiving oral sex.

It's just him taking advantage of your sister.

It sounds like he's taking everything and giving nothing.

Also, your lips don't grow due to oral sex.

[heavenlyangel2]

I'm meaning sucking a guy penis as soon as you start dating.

[Hamburgers]

That doesn't change anything. However, sucking his dick too soon can make a man lose respect for you. Not "take advantage" of a woman.

[heavenlyangel2]

I don't put my mouth on any and everything and definitely not to fast

[heavenlyangel2]

Ya that's what I was trying to explain in my problem lol sorry

[Hamburgers]

Oh, no worries. Then yes, men can certainly lose respect for women. When something is easy to obtain, it's not valued. That goes for anything.

[heavenlyangel2]

Thanks for understanding lol people thinking I'm talking about normally oral lol

[Hamburgers]

No problem

[Gegalix]

Men in general look down upon women who get sexually involved too fast. We call them "Easy." He started sexually exploiting her, then realized that he could manipulate her in every aspect of her life.

[heavenlyangel2]

Finally somebody get what I'm saying! Lol

[Hamburgers]

I agree with everything aside from the term "exploiting."

[milightman]

Wait so you would just look down on a girl because you had sex with her soon? Doesn't it take two people to consent on sex? Not oh you fell into my trap of having sex before my cut off hour, you're an easy slut.

[cavmanier]

I agree with milightman and I don't agree with these generalizations.

[heavenlyangel2]

If a guy approach you to test you, he comes to you and say "let's have sex " I mean everytime he says that you will do it?

[milightman]

If I was a girl and the dude was "testing me" I would tell him to grow up, it's just sex. If a guy and girl are getting along, they are comfortable with each other, and have the same idea on their mind, the dude asks or makes advances, and she also agrees, it's no big deal.

[WhiteSteve]

Well, sucking someone's penis is a normal part of sex. I'm not sure what you mean.

[heavenlyangel2]

Sucking a guy penis as soon as you both began dating is normal? I don't suck every guy penis because I don't know what they have

[WhiteSteve]

Almost every girl I've ever been with has given me oral before we have sex. And usually I'll have sex with a girl within 2 weeks. I think that's pretty standard. Maybe I'm misunderstanding you. Either way, it sounds like this guy is no good.

[heavenlyangel2]

Within 2weeks?i think you are lol what I'm meaning is she easy

[WhiteSteve]

Haha, well, I'm not sure we're on the same page here, but whether she's easy or not she doesn't deserve to be treated that way. But yeah, almost every girl I dated we've had sex within a couple weeks, depending on when you start counting from. Usually once we've hung out 3 or 4 times. Maybe I'm the easy one, haha.

[milightman]

Just to start, lips do not get bigger from giving a guy oral over a period of time, that's a total myth. Also men don't automatically start to take advantage of a woman after receiving oral, it's just oral.

Either they were genuinely interested, or just wanted to have fun.

I'm very sorry to hear this is happening to her and wish it didn't, but honestly there is something else going on. What it sounds like is he's just inconsiderate, the sex and oral has nothing to do with it at all. You can give a guy the best and if he's not a compassionate person, he will still take advantage of you.

[heavenlyangel2]

I'm meaning she was easy. Less than 6 weeks she gave herself up

[milightman]

Less than six weeks and it's problem? Okay I've seen people have sex on the first date have phenomenal lasting relationships that are still going right now, and some people taking it slow with terrible relationships and breaking up. Sex at a certain time does not constitute where the relationship is going, two happy mature people do.

[milightman]

By the way your cousin isn't easy, she's just giving her all to the wrong person.

[Bricealan]

I take your question as a serious one. Being male, I understand being brain dead when it comes to sex and getting sucked off. Your girlfriend sounds typical, and although it sounds really gross, I have been sucked on a first date, but did not take it as being so CASUAL. Men can be absolute morons, when it comes to sex and reciprocating the oral sex and taking it for granted. Based on what you described, he sounds typical, and I think some of that stuff should be discussed before doing it or the girl winds up on the short end of the sex stick

[lkjhg69cum]

Sounds like she just found herself a shit bag. She needs to stop going after looser ass holes and start dating decent respectable men. Her problems will be greatly reduced then.

[art84]

Sounds like he knew that she was load with money so he took her for all that she was worth. The sex was another perk that didn't need to be done.

[madgreek436]

any who does that is a asshole in my opion