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Has anyone had any actual threesome experiences?

I personally think a threesome is far fetched and doesn't really happen in real life although people keep talking and joking about it. Has anyone here ever had a threesome? Where you in a relationship with one of the people or in a relationship and cheated? Were you single and drunk? Where you guys friends or did you just randomly hook up at a club? How was it after? Did you still communicate with the other people involved? Was it 2 guys you had a threesome with or two girls or a guy and girl? Did you feel awkward and what actually happened? I can't really picture it myself so if anyone has actually had one I would be interested to know if it was even fun or memorable xd thanksxx
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  • I think it's kind of a niche thing. In college I was friends with a lot of dudes from the football team, and a few of those guys double teamed a handful of girls, but I don't really think of those girls as normal. Those chicks were "jersey chasers" that purposely sought out athletes to have sex with, for reasons and psychological issues unknown to me. A few of those guys play/played in the NFL too, and I'm sure once the prospect of money gets involved you'll find some diggers willing to go that route, although I don't really call these guys up like "what up, bro! Tag team any girls lately?" Haha...

    But for the rest of us who are average everyday people, like I said, it's a niche thing. I feel like the majority of people, particularly girls, aren't really down for that, either for fear of being judged or they just plain old aren't into the idea. But those that are into it manage to find each other.

    Personally, I haven't, and there's only one time I think it could have been a possibility. I used to know this girl Monica who came to the bar I bounced at, and she had a girlfriend, Nikki. Both were on the girl's rugby team, but were surprisingly much hotter than what I envisioned female rugby players to be, haha. They were both a solid 7.5, and they were feminine looking and weren't all burly, just athletic looking. Monica definitely liked me and always flirted with me, and one time when they were leaving the bar they were like "come drink with us!" I said I'd love to, but I had to stay and work. Nikki, the girlfriend, says "What? We can't bring this cute white boy home with us? That hurts me. That hurts me right *here*!", and she did that triangle thing with her hands over her hoo-ha, like an upside down Rocafella dynasty sign, haha. So that got me thinking.

    Then a couple months later we were at the same party together and I went off with Monica to burn a blunt in a bedroom. We weren't alone or anything, it was kind of the weed smoking room, haha. Nikki didn't come because she doesn't smoke, but Monica says to me, out of nowhere in the middle of normal conversation, "You know if I didn't have a girlfriend I'd totally be trying to hook up with you, right?" And I got uncharacteristically shy for some reason, and I just smiled and sheepishly said, "Oh... Yeah." and we returned to normal conversation. Looking back, that was probably my window. Part of me wishes I had said something to the effect of, "Thats cool. She's invited too." Not sure how that would have gone over, Monica was obviously bi, but I don't know about Nikki, and whether she was joking or not that night at the bar. But like Wayne Gretzky said, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." But that's as close as I've gotten to one, which may or may not have been that close at all, haha.

    • wow ! That's one cool story I was almost looking forward to what happens next haha yeah I get what you're saying totally... I mean sometimes we look back and say 'hmm what if I had done that imagine what could have happened'... but then we kind of let go of the could have and look at experiences as simply experiences we learned from and move on hoping next time an oppotunity comes around we won't say the big 'what if' hehe

    • Haha, thanks, wish it had a cooler ending. I actually saw Monica a few years later at my gym. My buddy/teammate worked the overnights there, it was open 24 hours, and we'd get blazed on the front steps and then lift because no one would be there. Anyway, she started going late night too, but I had a girlfriend at that point and my buddy was trying to hook up with her, so I didn't pursue it.

  • 1. I personally think a threesome is far fetched and doesn't really happen in real life although people keep talking and joking about it. - yes it happens, it's not star trek sci fi that it's not happened yet :)

    2. Has anyone here ever had a threesome? - I have

    3. Where you in a relationship with one of the people or in a relationship and cheated? - I've done it with my girlfriend involved whenever I had one (not all ofcourse)

    4. Were you single and drunk? - there are times when I was single and did it. Not all times was I drunk (I always have held my drink - except once)

    5. Where you guys friends or did you just randomly hook up at a club? - people known to me mostly but it's happened in hook ups at parties too

    6. How was it after? - felt as good as any

    7. Did you still communicate with the other people involved? - some of them who I know yes and some became friends post that day/night

    8. Was it 2 guys you had a threesome with or two girls or a guy and girl? - both mmf & mff and sometimes quite a few involved

    9. Did you feel awkward and what actually happened? - No reason to

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  • Yea. It was with my husband and another guy.
    He was a friend, kind of. He was my dance partner on TV.
    Two guys, but he'd like to try two girls sometime.
    It was awkward for about a minute. I got plenty of oral and a couple of dicks. I gave plenty of oral too.

    It was fun.

  • Threesome may be for some but not for all. I have never been in one but would remain open to the idea under the right circumstances.

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  • My girlfriend and I have had several threesomes with mutual bfs of ours (we believe in open relationships) and in fact we have a foursome planned for a couple of weeks from now. They were all very very fun and I wish we got to do them more often.

    • four some you mean boyfriend and his girlfriend , and boyfriend and his girlfriend ?! do you don't mind seeing your beloved one getting fucked by another dude ?

    • I mean my girlfriend, and two boyfriends of ours (I'm bi) and no I don't mind at all. I think it's very hot, actually.

  • Lmao I assure you they are real. I've done threesomes wth a girlfriend and another girl and I've done threesomes with myself, a girl and a guy. And yes they are awesome! It's so hot being that sexual with someone. I'm not gay/bi so the ones with another guy involved only us touching the girl but it was so fun. They happen if you're open minded and surround yourself with open minded people. Although I can say threesomes with a girlfriend are a bad idea and I'd never do it again.

    • omg why? did she get angry?

    • i always find it so hard to believe that any man would love seeing his girlfriend being banged by another dude infront of him !

    • No no no. It was her, myself and another girl. I could never watch another man with my girl.

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  • HAHAHAHA! Just because you don't have experience with something, you think it doesn't exist?

    That's so narrow minded and naive.

    I've had threesomes. Haven't felt the need to brag about it. They are just a part of life.

    • are you naturally this offensive to people? My question was not 'please call me names!' maybe I have a different outlook to yours no need to be so rude

    • Do you not realize how offensive your own question was? Or do you only ever see offence in other people? You basically called everyone who ever had a threesome, a liar, whether you meant that or not.

    • no man you simply think that people are out to get you or something LOL it was an innocent question hahaha

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  • I was offered one by my mates girlfriend. I turned it down as he never mentioned it.

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