Why am I so angry when I'm horny?

WHy? :( I get pissed off ! Like I don't want to be horny and I don't want to masturbate but my boyfriend decided to go out somewhere and I didn't want to go now I'm all alone and I'm so angry at him! -__- Why am I like this aaaaa?!?
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  • This could be a multi faceted sort of a situation, in the sense that perhaps you were feeling like you were wanting his affection in the first place, and then when he leaves you, this makes receiving this affection impossible, which in turn sort of leaves you with few if any alternatives, which angers you and leaves you both angry and horny. On the other end of the spectrum desire like many other emotions is a fairly strong one. I'm sure you have heard of the parallel between love and hate, well sexual desire is also pretty high up there on the list. While I'm not a particular fan of angry sex, there are some people that tend to really go for that sort of thing. Now I'm not saying that you are one of those people, however because both emotions are rather strong, there is a possibility that for you one could lead to the other. In other words if you are feeling rather frisky, and this is not satisfied, it makes you angry, or if you are angry, it leads to you feeling frisky. Something you might want to consider is thinking about how your first sexual experiences occurred, was anger or frustration a part of it? If so it might help explain why these two emotions are linked. I hope this helps.

    • hmm what you said is interesting have you ever studied psychology?

    • Actually, yes I have studied both psychology as well as abnormal psychology when I was working on my associates degree :-)

    • wow that is so cool! Let me see... yes actually , the first time I felt sexually excited when I was 14, the very, very first time I had no idea what to do or how to handle it at all! I thought that the reason why I was feeling a tingle down there was cause I needed to use the bathroom so I would constantly go pee but it never worked... Considering I was brought up in a catholic background I was always told it was wrong although I never felt the need to masturbate until that day

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  • Simple.. It is the lack of control on the sitsuation. He went, you didnt, and you really didn't want him to go. So now, your feelings of sexual desire are a result of your subconscious belief that you can control the sitsuaton through sex. You know.. All girls are taught the Power of the V at an early age.

    • This makes a lot of sense! Do you have any background of knowledge on the subject ?

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  • Seriously, you don't know why?

    Let me make it extremely obvious.

    HORMONES.

    When we get horny, our hormones get everywhere, in your rare case they turn into anger. What you need is sex, lots of it, specifically an orgasm, even more specifically, more than one orgasm (if you can handle that, some cant). Even if you don't think you want it, you do.

    how has it been, or how often do you have sex? How long has it been since you've orgasmed? When you do, it releases chemicals that calm you down and make you happy, so that would help you out immediately.

    ALSO don't release your kracken of anger on your boyfriend when this happens to you, because 1) it decreases your chances of getting sex and fixing the original problem, and 2) is makes him confused, and can starts drama, break up, etc.

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  • Google for sexual deprivation + women and you might find your answer. I feel the same as a male!