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If I find a that my boyfriend bought a new pack of condoms and one is missing could it be that he cheated?

My boyfriend has many girls that ring him up for a booty-call including his ex-girlfriend. I was away on a trip for about two weeks and before I left my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend of 5years had been calling and texting him requesting a visit to or from him. She made her intentions clear, she said she wanted him back and wants to sleep with him back but he told me he doesn't want her back because she had cheated on him. Based on what he has shared with me about his past, my boyfriend does not have a history of cheating or one-night-stands. However when I got back from my trip I discovered that he had bought a new unfamiliar brand of condoms consisting of 3 in a pack. The surprising thing is that, one condom is missing from the 3 and I can't think of any explanation as to why there's a missing condom but that he used it with some other girl. So guys do you think he slept with someone else, perhaps one of his many booty-calls? :/
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Thank you guys for your answers. I talked to him and he said whenever he buys a pack of condoms he likes to open them and take one out leaving two but I he gave lousy explanation as to where he put it. Days later he tells me that the other condom is missing, says he thinks his brother stole it.
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  • well perhaps. or maybe it's just in his wallet. or perhaps it was torn

    but I would say that the scenario doesn't sound good. you need to have a conversation with him. he SHOULD NOT be even conversing with girls calling to hook up with him and the fact that he does would be a HUGE red flag about his sexual promiscuity. The ONLY guys who have crowds of girls calling them to hook up are ones who have a history of being promiscuous. So whether it was the ex or one of the other girls who calls him it doesn't seem very promising that he's been faithful

    to me if my girlfriend had guys calling her all the time to hook up, that's a girl I just wouldn't be with. Either they should've put the hammer down on all her past booty calls or the likelihood is that since they haven't they are keepign their options open.

    i just don't like the sounds of a "bf" who has 'many girls' calling for booty. doesn't sound promising as a relationship

    • @update... his excuses sound rather flimsy. where does he put the one he removes? like if he threw it in his wallet or car so if he was out with you he'd always have on that would be a legit excuse but to say he pulls one out just because and then isn't sure but his brother may have taken it sounds like a flimsy excuse...do you have reason besides this to suspect him of anything?

  • Maybe he used it to beat off, or for a water balloon. Or to keep rain out of a rifle barrel, or shot it at an office mate like a big lubricated rubber band, or did this.

    https://m.YouTube.com/watch?v=RFl5d9hKHd0&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DRFl5d9hKHd0

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  • ... it could just be that he opened them up to see what they are like? I don't know about you but whenever there was a box of condoms at my bf's or my friends or whatever, I would just for some reason open one up, stretch it til it snaps back and then just I don't know, probably left it somewhere because come to think of it, I remember playing with them but never throwing them out.. hmm..

  • I'd have to say the evidence is profoundly against him and he is guilty beyond any reasonable doubt of willfully sticking his penis in another vagina other than yours.

    Sentence him to Life Without You!

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  • Maybe, or maybe he was just trying one on.

  • You have to talk to him. He could have lent one to a buddy. Or someone gave him the pack with only two in it..they tried them and didnt' like them. He could have been cheating. There are a bunch of reasons.

  • It could be missing cause he tried it out masturbating. New unfamiliar brand remember, just saying.

    The thing that really catches my eye here is his ridiculous motivation why he doesn't want to get back together with her. I mean come on, he's with you, isn't that good enough reason not to go on a rebound with an ex?

  • he cheating babe,

  • It's not because the condom isn't in the pack that he used it: he may have put it in his wallet because the one he had there was over it's expiry date, or some thing like that.

    (If you jump to conclusions, you flatten them and they're worthless ;-) )

  • Then yea he's cheating on you

  • Sorry to say this,but I think he is cheating on you.

  • If it is a new type of condom, then he might have wanted to try one on to make sure it fit well and everything. Guys really don't want to look stupid in front of the girl when the time comes to use it.

  • Could just be a posh wank

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