Guys, what makes a girl worth dating v/s just fuckable?

A lot of times I hear guys talking about how they'd only want to get into a girls pants whereas sometimes they'd say how they'd actually like to date her. What makes one girl only good for sex and another worth dating? (P.s. Don't sugar coat it, sometimes you have to be an asshole to be honest)
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  • substance, quality, feeling of long term trust and share same interests or willingness to learn new ones, rather than good looking body with nothing in the head who thinks only to be treated cash wise and get supported by a guy without accomplishing anything in her personal life. These are two major differences. If a girl plays around her entire life without thinking of her future I'll play around with her too for couple weeks-months, but a girl who is working hard in her life to become something deserves a guy who appreciates that and a lot of times guys stick with them forever because they know what she does, needs and wants.

  • Basically nature has design sex and attraction for engaging men and women in producing babies to keep life ever lasting on earth. If a man or girl is felt capable of it - man or girl will be attracted for it. For family built up and taking care of offspring - we look for character and nature. Just pleasure of sex will not the selection for marriage and keeping the family. The difference is here - just for pleasure - choice will be different than selecting to establish family.

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  • Better looks, better personality, more convenient, more his "type" ... any combination, really, can make a girl more dateable than fuckable. A lot of guys don't decide if a girl is dateable until he's been spending some time with her, others decide right away (based on looks or the way she presents herself).

    Sometimes all girls are just fuckable and not dateable, if a guy isn't in the mood for all the crap that comes with a relationship.

    I mean, I'm pretty sure girls say some of the same things. "He's hot, but he's just so (dumb, flaky, slutty, boring, not my type.) Etc.

  • Out side look man attract for sex, inner qualities - character and moral attract for marriage education and family culture also play an important role. The same way girl will think about a man, but most probably will not go for it just for pleasure. How you behave with opposite sex is important ant it guides the decision - just one time pleasure or life time relation - Marriage.

  • I think it depends on the personality of a guy. A guy can date a super attractive woman with a great personality and dump her the next day or he can date somebody whose not attractive or personable at all an stay with her for the rest of his life. It all depends on the guy and what kind of person he is.

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  • For me a girl worth dating needs to be interested in having kids, settling down one day. She needs to have a good personality and be likely to be 100% faithful. Preferably she should also be a hot virgin.

    A girl who is fuckable is average-hot with no STDs.

  • almost any woman with a pulse is fuckable.

    date-able, that opens a whole different can of worms. a woman is date-able if she is intelligent, funny, and an OVERALL beautiful person. I'm not one to be in a relationship with a person simply because they're aesthetically pleasing. I want someone that makes me glow on the inside and out.

  • Personality.

  • Not dumb, low maintenance.

  • Fuckable = nice looking

    Dateable = nice looking, nice personality, loyal, kind, caring, family orientated, not a slut

  • Personality is the difference. If a girl is sweet, kind, caring, intelligent, not just physically attractive, I'd probably want to date her, not just fuck her.

  • For me it depends on her values and attitude. A girl worth dating is one who is unselfish, values family, wants to have kids and has a positive and respectful attitude toward men.

    I would fuck a feminist if she was attractive but there's no way I would take her seriously as a companion.