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Girls if a guy challenged your boyfriend to a fight and he lost the fight would you ever dump your current?

Boyfriend? Would you dump him? How would you feel if he lost a fight? This is mainly for late teens and 20 something couples, mainly the couples I get bitter and jealous of, even though unfortunately I'm 5'7 I often wish I could beat 6 foot tall or taller boyfriend in front of his girlfriend, mainly because I hate, despise, loathe on how us guys are expected to be SO GOD DAMN STRONG!, we're expected to take the lead, be the leader in the relationship and I hate and refuse to take responsibility in order to make myself more attractive because if a girl will not accept me for who I am then why should I change for her? God my blood gets boiling hot wanting to beat up somebody I'm jealous of
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my motive behind feeling like getting into a fight is being jealous and envious of guys my age and younger than me who are successful with attracting women, naturally know how to get a girlfriend, and I hate it when people say, "don't cry or whine about women not liking you, find out what they want in order to make yourself more attractive" YEAH WELL IT PISSES ME OFF THAT I WAS NOT ATTRACTIVE EARLIER, LIKE IN MY LATE TEENS AND EARLY 20'S, UNFORTUNEATELY I CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST!
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overall just angry and bitter over the fact that I'm getting older not younger and I don't like it at all one bit, and how I can't start dating earlier unfortuneately
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and overall I hate, despise, loath on how life and society expects us guys to toughen it up all the damn time, expect us to be so damn strong by being a leader, being dominant, taking charge, always tell us to grow some balls, grow a pair, man up, be a man, it's like metaphorically speaking life is like a military drill sergeant to us guys or a military boot-camp, metaphorically speaking, seriously I feel like punching another dudes lights out if he dares tell me to grow some balls in person
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My deep root behind my anger and rage, jealousy is because I did not go through the right socialization in my childhood and teen years, no doubt a guys upbringing and how he is raised, early social experiences have a huge impact on how his dating
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Most Helpful Girls

  • First of all, calm the fuck down. Not everyone is strong, even in guys, and I don't know about other girls, but I don't expect my man to be able to take down someone twice his size. My man is about the same height as you, but I don't expect him to take anyone down.

    Besides, we are both laid back and would rather find a way to not fight or get caught up in one. If the aggressor kept following him or touched him, I'm sure he'd give a fairly good warning punch to say 'back the fuck off' and try to leave.

    I'm not sure my man would lose too easily in a fight, even if the guy was tall or bigger, because he knows how to hit certain places that can leave you on your knees. Knowledge is better than pure muscle. I have a best friend and her boyfriend works out for four hours a day. He is ripped (my boyfriend is not, he's more of the husky type), and is taller than my boyfriend, yet in a friendly arm wrestle my man beat him without even trying.

    However if my man were to loose, even epically, in a fight, Why would that give me reason to leave him? I love him, not his muscles. I'd tend to any wounds and if he was jealous of the winning guy or was still pissed off, I'd look him in the eyes and tell him to calm the hell down.

    Life is too short to get all worked up other nothing. I can understand if some guy put a hand on me or was being a douche to me, yeah that can easily make a guy snap. But other than that, I'd say walk away.

    • Ya we I hate how us guys are expected to take the lead

    • You guys aren't as pressured as it seems, I'm sure if you have someone who cares about you and loves you, they won't care whether you win or lose a fight. They would probably prefer it if you don't fight at all. Don't stoop to another idiots level and fight them, unless you want to look like a three year old. Besides, girls are pressured for a lot of things too, so you're not alone.

    • how are we not as pressured? us guys are still expected to do the approaching, starting conversation and asking out first

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  • I don't feel that it is right to put such high standards on people. Society says that Men are supposed to be very strong emotionally and physically while showing no sign of weakness. That's not fair at all. Be a human being before you be a man. No one is perfect and we all have things that make us vulnerable. There is nothing wrong with that. If I wouldn't spend 24/7 in a gym, why should I make my boyfriend feel like that's what he needs to do in order for me to love him? Feel what you want. Do what you want. I would not see a guy differently if he lost a fight. Personally, I would hate that he is fighting because I'm against violence. I like my guys emotionally squishy anyways.

  • You are certainly a troubled individual for sure. No I wouldn't dump him, as a matter of fact I would take him home and fuck his brains out letting him know that what some illiterate moron attacking him is no reason to be down and out.

    However I am not so quiet as to just stand and watch either as my foot would be in this attackers nuts as hard as I could kick.

    • Yeah well the guy who instigated the fight has every right to be jealous

    • Just because you are a loser gives you no right to be jealous of the guys getting all this good pussy from us girls! Crank your own dick and be happy!

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  • Why the hell are you jealous of ANYONE? Particularly couples? That's just stupid. And wanting to fight someone because THEY make YOU bitter and jealous. Yeah, that makes sense. No. That's even more stupider. Not a word? Look in YOUR dictionary.

    And to think you're asking if a girl would leave a guy because he lost a fight... Geez. I would expect a girl to leave whichever one picked the fight, winner or loser. Cool your jets, and learn that jealousy is a useless emotion. A complete waste of energy. But then again, I've known some people to be complete wastes of protoplasm. Do as you wish.

    • I guess its just an inner cave man

    • You're confusing your jealousy with your self-anger and rage, and you're wanting to vent it on others by picking fights. Again, I say that's just stupid. YOU'RE the one whose made yourself bitter and angry, no one else. You need serious help.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No, of course not. Never! I'd take him home and look after him..

    • why? isn't it the guys job to take care of the girl?

    • Yeah but he'd be hurt :(

  • No, I wouldn't.

  • Ya why not

  • Since you put it in this category, I wouldn't break up with him, I'd just have amazing sex with him. No need to be bummed out over a jealous and bitter retard, lets just have amazing sex and forget about it.

    • You just need help. And I mean no offense by it, you just need to stop being negative and stop wanting what others have ... wanting it isn't going to obtain it for you so get over it and learn to love yourself.

    • that's the luxury you girls have, you just have to want it and it comes to you because you don't need to take action about it

    • I agree with wishicouldchange

  • I am really turned off by angry men, personally.

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