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My beautiful dark twisted fantasy. What's yours?

I'm a very submissive female and love, love, love, dominate men. Their aggressive nature is a huge turn on and I love when my partner tells me what to do and how to do it. Lately I've been having day dreams of a smoking hot guy having his way with me, tie me up, a little choke, a few slaps, doing things against my will. And the more I ask him to stop is when I want more aggression and dominance. I want my hair pulled and forced to masturbate in front of him. I really want to be ravished in the shower and thrown up against the shower door with great anal sex. I want to be my partner's stress reliever, I want him to come in from a long day and have his way with me without asking if I'm in the mood. I want him to tell me I'm in the mood. I want to orgasm from the sound of his moaning and grunting, his satisfaction. And afterward he can leave me where I lay and tell me he will come back when he's ready to... no cuddling, no kiss goodnight. Guys, what do you think? What's your fantasy?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I do exactly this with my girl at times, and she loves it just like you do. While not every session is like this, she really likes it when I just do whatever I want, and "force" her to do things, and completely ignore her "wishes". We have a safe word for safety reasons, but she likes being overpowered and saying "no" and have me do it anyway. She also really likes when I just grab her, strip her naked, spank and slap her a bit, pull her hair, play rough with her tits, and then bang her nice and hard.

    She likes the feeling of being owned, and being used by me for my pleasure without any regard for hers; it's a huge turn-on for her and drives her wild. She reads me stories about sex slaves, harem girls, prostitutes, and stuff like that, as suggestions for what she would enjoy. I enjoy doing all of that with her, and "punishing" her for being bad (generally a spanking, followed by rough, dirty sex, verbal humiliation, and maybe a facial). We feed off each others' energy and arousal, and it's pretty awesome.

    • That's so damn hot! I would love a dominating man like u! She's lucky.

  • My fantasies are similar. Lots of women have these kinds of fantasies or discover they love submitting to dominant sadistic men. You're just fine. Now go find a guy with compatible kinks. If you need some suggestions on how to do that, friend me and we'll discuss.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I so know the feeling! I used to not as submissive as I am now. I wasn't dominant but I have become more easy going. But I fantasize about the same thing, I just really want a guy to just do things to me I will never forget and just tie me up so im helpless. I just want him to stretch and bend my body (im flexible thank god) and just have his way with me. Im so fascinated by men and how they're always going to be stronger than women and that thought in my mind of "he literally could just hold me down and do whatever because he is stronger" gets me soo wet! I hope I find a man like that..

  • My fantasy is similar to yours. I like hair pulling, name calling and spanking. I like being told what to do and being somewhat degraded.

    But another fantasy (which is lame) is I want to give him a body oil massage, with both of our bodies oiled. Then I want to er, grind against him as I massage him. So 'ride' his thigh/leg and upper back. And glide my body against his.

    That's all I have as of late.

    • Hmmmm. I like!

    • Yeah that is hot

  • ok I'm gonna say it, you just made me a little wet :) My fantasy is being double penetrated by two bisexual men, just the idea of being in between of two big strong sweaty men just turns me on so much!

    • Lol, now your fantasy is really hot!

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  • That's quite a common one, I've met quite a few girls into that... I actually don't have a fantasy, I don't have much imagination nor do I crave anything.

  • That's EXACTLY what I want. I love a dom/sub relationship. It turns me on so much to be controlled and humiliated. Like I want to be used.

    • Yes that's how I feel. I want the guy to slap me around and tell me to shut up if I scream. Dominate makes are so sexy.!

    • Yeah I love being humiliated

    • Wow girls are weird. Lol sorry.

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  • I love submissive women.

    • What do you like most about submissive women?

    • That they let me take over control and do whatever I want to them. I can treat them like my little fuck toy.

    • I like what I hear!

  • That's too rough for me. I prefer gentle love making where we bond.

    • Ok that's cool. But I like it hardcore. I don't know why, it's just sexy to me.

  • Me and my girlfriend are into that, and we've been experimenting with bondage, spanking, lots of rough sex etc. but we're both still pretty new to it...

    • Oh OK, once you two get in the swing of things the experience will be memorable. What made you two want to get into the whole sub/Dom thing?

    • I've always enjoyed being dominant in the bedroom - being rough, hair pulling, spanking, choking, biting etc. Then I started to become more interested in trying more kinky stuff. I could tell my girlfriend was also a little interested since she enjoyed reading stuff like 50 shades. How about you?

  • Everything you just described is what I look for sexually in a woman. I love to be dominant, I want to be in control, I take what I want, I do what I want, and I need a girl who will take it that way. Not saying I don't know how to "make love" as they say. But when I want to get freaky, this is the only way for me. I like telling the girl where I'm going to come and telling her she's gonna like it. Lol that's my thing.

    • You just turned me on ;)

    • Haha sorry I'm not sorry?

  • This dominating thing is kind of weird I think. How bout you dominating a guy for a change.

    • I'm not the dominating type. I love submission.

  • Mine's mostly like that, but I'm the guy. I would add more biting, growling and scratching... from me. I want her to keep her hands still and do everything I say.

    • I love biting, and scratching his back. I like to hear the man growl. I don't want to do any growling.

  • i want to find my boyfriend injured and nurse him back to health.

    • just don't be the one who injured him, lol.

    • I'll injure him!

    • :o

  • Girls 'love' dominant/being degraded.

    I remember this one girl, I slammed her on the ground, climbed up the turnbuckle and gave her a 5-Star Splash.

    Omg, she came everywhere.

    • I would have too!

  • Thats hot!

    • Thanks ;)

  • That's freak in hot. Also reversed roles as well.

    • Thanks, I never been dominate so I wouldn't even know what to do if the roles were reversed. I love submission.

    • QA, what if you're partner *ordered* you to be dominant? Then you'd have to submissively be dominant.

  • My fantasy is being dominated and ravished by a group of Amazons on some tropical island ;))

  • That's so hot

  • I have the weirdest fantasy of all. I'm agree with bluexqueen when she said:

    "That's too rough for me. I prefer gentle love making where we bond."

    ...which is weird, considering I'm guy, I know, I know. That's why it's the weirdest fantasy of all.

    • I guess if I had to come up with a specific fantasy, it would be to sit on a chair as she rides me. Then, just before I come, we wrap our arms around each other in an embrace, and she just holds me tight against her in a hug through the orggasm until about 5 minutes after I finish.

  • Reading that made my pants tight.

    • Lol, good. So you're into submissive women?

    • Yes, definitely.

  • You're the shit!

    • Lol, well thank u.

  • Mine's a bit different. I like being submissive but not to that extent. I want my guy to spin me around as soon as I get in through the door and press me against the wall before helping me out of my clothes and then taking me right there, against the wall by the front door.

    Sigh... its just been so routine lately. Get undressed myself, crawl into my side of the bed, wait for his hockey game to end, and then finally get it on.

    • You should surprise him during the game. Walk in there naked and stand in front of the TV. He will forget about the game then.

    • Hmmm, I should try it. Still not as sexy as him getting me out of my clothes. I do need to come up with something. I'm not super freaky or anything, but damn he's way more vanilla than I ever counted on. Not that I have a lot of experience, which makes this even harder, I've never truly initiated the sex.

  • I want to be a foot slave and just have a girl use me to clean out her toe jam after she has been at work. I want her to force me to give her pedicures while she is talking on the phone.

    • Now that's a new one. I'm sure there's plenty of ladies who would like that. Do you consider yourself a submissive man?

  • My fantasy? You just detailed it perfectly. You are the perfect woman!

    I've actually found that a lot of women have fantasies along those lines.

    • Good! I kind of thought the fantasy was a little sick. But I see other females posting here that like it too!

    • It's too bad a lot of girls think it's sick. It's not.

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