Whats the difference between a slut and a freak?

[Anonymous]

1. what's the difference between a freak & a slut? I know the basic answers already; slut sleeps with 20 guys. freaks will try anything in bed. but what if.. like a girl wants to sleep with a guy because she's sexually attracted to him & she just wanna fuck his brains out for the sake of it, she has a very short list of guys she's slept with, & she's single & so is he...the only issue is she already slept with a guy in the same class. is she a slut or a freak? I'm asking cause I don't know if this girl would be a "sexually liberated, in charge of her sexuality, knows who she wants to fuck & do as she please freak" or a slut just like the girl who sleeps with anybody & has a long list. 2. what is a female player? I don't think a female player sleeps around. I think she plays guys by using them for money or whatever she wants. anyways, what's the definition of a female player. how do she leave emotions out of it when that's what women are known to not do? Weird questions but really curious. haha

[i1T2daty]

They are all words whose meaning is often decided by the context they are used. Don't let yourself be defined by any of them. Your sexual desire is completely legitimate as long as it's between 2 consenting adults, or 1, or 3, or 8 as long as no one is being held against their will.

The woman you speak of in the above paragraph, taking away any of the titles, sounds like a well adjusted woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and pursues it where and when it suits her. Women play guys & have since long before Cleopatra talked Anthony into giving her 1/3rd of the Roman Empire just for a fling. How many women make the same deal but not for $$, instead, for a marriage, to be supported, live well-it's the same thing. How many guys have manipulated women by making them think they would provide that and have not.

Frankly, more women are getting professional jobs today than men. Pretty soon, women are going to find out a vibrator is more reliable than a man and a lot less hassle. That's besides the point.

Wouldn't you rather explore your sexuality with some guy who is comfortable exploring his? The time is past when women, "gave it up". Now it's find a guy who make you laugh, come, and isn't an asshole-expect no more, but no less either.

It used to be that women who liked sex were sluts and men who provided it were studs. Those were so high school pathetic that they finally wore out. I'm not spewing bullshit though it sounds really self-helppy. You'll be a lot more emotionally, sexually, intellectually stable if you don't buy into anybody else's definition. If someone tells you you're a ***** whatever, ask him what he means. If he stammers at a definition, ask him if he;'s asking if you like sex, a lot. Tell him, yeah, if a can find a man who can do it properly, are you applying for the job? On the other hand, I'm 2x your age so what do I know.

[MrOracle]

A slut sleeps with lots of random guys she doesn't know. Often, she does this even if she knows she's being used, degraded, or abused, just because she wants attention or because she thinks it's all she has to offer.

A freak is just a girl who is very open-minded and enthusiastic about sex. A girl could be in a committed, long-term monogamous relationship and still be a freak.

A female player generally gets guys to do things for her, or giver her things, for the PROMISE of sex that she never actually delivers. The "player" part is her ability to string a guy along and keep him engaged and going things for her despite not getting sex over a long period of time.

[tiredofwaiting]

Slut is someone who gets around and has little or no morals.

Freak is someone who is adventurous in bed but is usually monogamous and they are committed to their partner and has only slept with a few people beforehand.

[MissConfused93]

No difference. They're both demeaning labels. Sleep with who you want in whatever positions you want.

People are more than their sex life.

[05Jueey]

Thank you!

[meowcow]

A slut will sleep with the entire football team.

A freak will stuff the football up her vagina.

[gonyr]

A slut is someone who sleeps around, cheats, has sex with people below what her standards should be and all that nonsense.

A freak is someone who may be experienced but isn't some dirty skank. She knows what she's doing and knows how to please guys but isn't with a new one every night.

I don't judge a girl for being a slut. Fuck whoever you want. As long as they consent to it it's fine by me.

[05Jueey]

You can't put someone who has sex with multiple people in the same category as someone who cheats. That's too funny

[gonyr]

I don't consider someone who sleeps with multiple people a slut

[madhatters4]

a slut is a promiscuous person. they have sex without using discretion.

a freak can be monogamous but just is very sexually adventurous

a female player?

the fact is the term "player" is slang so it's definition is entirely based on the person using the word. in my opinion a player is any person (male or female) who will use almost any tactic to get a person in bed (lying, manipulation, coercion, etc)

[WoIIie]

Sluts and freaks are not dichotomous in my opinion.

[05Jueey]

Who cares right? Do what you want

[lkjhg69cum]

They should both be in my bed. ;)

[Prof_Don]

Imo a slut is a freak that willingly breaks commitments (hers or someone else's) and uses sex as a means of bad morale

[Anonymous]

A slut is someone who has no standards and no morals. A freak likes sex with pleasure, but has standards

[Anonymous]

People always mix up the too I think is One is monogamous the other as many partners