He's trying to add a notch in his belt.
He will take the most precious gift she can give a man, by telling her every sweet thing she wants to hear, then leave her, with a broken heart, and hurting spirit. She thought he was the one! If only she would have waited, and applied a little more wisdom.
She might choose to be blind to her part in it, and tell herself men are pigs. That all men want is sex. She may become bitter, and angry. I have seen it, a thousand times plus.
He will go on with life, enjoying the moments of fleeting pleasure he had with her, then disconnect himself from her. Because he got what he wanted.
He will have a hundred phone numbers in his phone, of similar woman who want to be with him, yet, at the end of the day he will be the loneliest man alive, whether there one woman in his bed, or ten.
Be wary, women. There are men like this out there. They are wolves, and predators, and while they may seem like the care at the moment, the truth is they are incapable of anything resembling genuine love.
And if you fall for one of these wolves, and you screw up, do not forget your part in the equation. You screwed up. The only hope you can possibly have for healing is to admit your half of the fault, and humble yourself. If you have been hurt by a guy like this, and you move past the pain, and the desire to blame men, you will become something incredibly beautiful to a man who wants to cherish your heart. To an honorable man who will devote his life to you.
Otherwise, you can grow more bitter, and die inside. The choice is yours. This is why I tell young women, or virgins, to save it. Keep it. Hold onto it like their hearts depend on it. Because they do.
In my opinion, every down vote is from either a guy like I describe, or a bitter woman who blames men for being scum. We aren't all scum. Some of us loathe men who would hurt the heart of an innocent woman. Sorry, but that's the truth. And sometimes the truth pisses people off.
Wouldn't love be the most precious gift anyone would give to someone?
Good point. But you can give love to anyone. You can only give your virginity to one person, one time. Makes it kinda special. I love my motorcycle, my wolf, my guns. But I will forever remember the first girl I had. Forever. My mind, body, soul, and heart will forever hold something soft for her. That is how it was designed. People who are bitter hate that truth. But there's always hope for the future.
You sound bitter. "the most precious gift she can give a man" is an overevaluation of virginity.
The deal is that he's hoping to get laid. If he suspects (or learns) she is a virgin, he probably assumes his chances of getting laid are worse than if she's a non-virgin, because in many cases, virgins will have a specific reason (religion, life-plan, agreement with parents, etc.) to remain a virgin, and he doesn't want to have to fight against that.
Most guys aren't "out to get" a virgin, and don't really care if a girl is a virgin or not, UNLESS her virginity will prevent him from getting laid. And it's clear from his questions that that's all he's really concerned about here.
He just wants sex. He's asking her sexual personal questions to a girl he doesn't seem to know too well. I notice he isn't asking her questions about her as a person, or trying to hang out with her and get to know her better on an emotional level. he just is asking questions to satisfy his own sexual need. If she is really a good girl then she needs to stay far away from him and not even entertain his wack advances. Don't answer his questions and be standoffish to him. And get someone else to help you stretch. Even if you have to wait for someone to finish stretching
since I have no clue as to the relationship between said guy and girl, it's really hard to tell.
They're not really close. Only time they keep in touch is professional wise.
professional wise...but he's helping her stretch?
Yes he's a trainer
Just lie and say yup, a hundred times.. he'll get bored and move on. What a d*uch bag..
Why a douche bag
He's getting all sexual because he's helping you stretch? how about he just acts like a decent human being and helps you stretch? and doesn't worry about if you've lost your virginity?
I agree. It was random and weird. I still don't get the purpose of the question.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The kid wants sex. If you are not going out with him it is none of his business. If you are...are you ready?
We're not going out. He's only my gym partner.
Well, I've had some females that were pretty shy when being around a guy, so that was one of the reasons why I came out and asked if she was a virgin still or not. Depending on her attitude on how she responded pretty much determined how I was going to take the next step. If she acted like as though she wanted to have sex, I would go very easy with her in trying to make the whole thing as enjoyable as possible. If she acted like she didn't want to have sex, I would wait until she said she was ready.
Are you intimately involved? If not, that info doesn't concern him.
We're not. What's his reason and what was he thinking to even ask that question.
He's probably trying to get with you, and is asking inappropriate questions.
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