What is considered Kinky?

[Anonymous]

What is considered kinky?My boyfriend says I am,but I'm not sure,what sexual acts are considered Kinky?

[h3ll0kati3]

I think being kinky depends on the person and how they look at it. It could range from caressing your boyfriend body at a time he isn't expecting it. to really being sexually presenting how you feel? You know? when like girls lick there fingers, showing guys they are turned on? like things like that. my boyfriend tells me that I am kinky, when I start kissing him when he is watching tv and I do it to get his attention. but that's what he says to me...IDK, maybe it how I'm kissing him or maybe he takes it as I want him right now... LOL... I just respond by saying... yes, looking at you makes me kinky and he laughs... and I say it to him at times when he comes behind me... and starts caressing my butt... LOL I know TMI.. sorry... I don't think its a bad thing at all the way he and I talk about it... so maybe if your boyfriend starts saying it to you again, try joking around with him, and call him kinky when he does things to you... and make it fun! (; Its always better that way! I wish you luck!

[wrali]

'Kinky' is what conservative people won't do, and it's a very, very good thing. Kinky girls make the world a sunny place.

Most of what you've described is kinky, especially anal, videotaping and light bondage. And it's all excellent.

There's no upper limit to kink, though. It can go from using anal beads (recommended -- pull them out at orgasm) to, well double-fisting. Or more. Don't worry, and just enjoy as you like it. If your boyfriend is down on you about it, I *guarantee* there is a legion of quality guys who'd treat you like a princess and nurture your urges into a full, kinky blossom :)

[p-guy]

Kinky is a very subjective idea when it comes to sex. I think most people consider S&M, Fetishes, things like that are "kinky", but for a prudish person oral sex may be considered kinky. There is just no way to know.

[Asker]

Ok

[nothingtosee]

Boy, that's a tough one to "tie" down. lol. What may seem "kinky" to you may seem "boring" to me. It really all depends what your partner feels.

For me, it's:

Bondage

Oral sex LONG after your partner achieves orgasm

Handjob LONG after your partner cums

Tease and denial

Ruined orgasms

Stopping in the middle of a blowjob just to French kiss me. (To me, that is SO taboo, but I love it!)

French kissing me with a mouthful of cum (again, to me that is SO naughty, kinky and taboo, but I love it)

Giving your partner a handjob while he, or she is driving, during the day with lots of traffic all around you.

Giving your partner a handjob while he/she is in the passenger side, during the day with lots of traffic all around you.

Performing oral sex on your boyfriend while he's driving the car, in the middle of the day with lots of traffic all around

Encouraging me to eat my own cum, several times, several different ways.

Asking me to eat her out right after I finished cumming inside of her

Having sex while talking over the phone, AND bragging to him, or her about what you two are doing and not hanging up.

Asking a friend to watch you two have sex.

Asking your boyfriend to put on a show for you by performing oral sex on another man. The same goes with him ask you to perform oral sex on another woman.

Asking your boyfriend to put on a show for you by asking him to give another guy a nice slow, teasing, edging kind of handjob. The same goes with him asking YOU to give another woman a handjob.

[Odst162acount2]

Handcuffs being tied down spanked and a lot of things

[Anonymous]

tell us the kind of stuff you do and we'll tell you which ones are kinky

[Asker]

I do all of this.Is this Kinky?j/w.Role Playing,Vibrators/Dildos,Mutual Masturbation,watching porn together,oral sex,i swallow or let him come wherever,face/breasts/stomach,anal sex,lap dances/stripteases(for him),Video taping then watching it together,different positions,handcuffs,spanking(a little),Chocolate/whipped cream/honey used in sex,and a little more

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah most of that is. there's a lot of things on that list that most girls wouldn't do, meaning its kinda kinky

[Asker]

Oh.I thought it was just normal...

[Opinion Owner]

Nah its not normal but don't worry because to most guys its a good thing .

[Asker]

Thanks...I guess