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How important is breast size?

I have pretty small breasts, size B. So I was wondering how important is that to men. I'm happily married but I sometimes wonder if my hudband is actually happy/satisfied with my breasts or just accepting because he loves me. Like if he sees me topless or rubbing them against him or something like that, does it really do the trick for him or is it "yeah whatever" in his mind and he just plays along for my sake? And if a pair of DDs walks by, I guess any man would notice, but does he maybe feel some regret or longing or something?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's no more important than dick-size, would be one answer.

    Preference for size also really depends on the individual.

    From what I've seen typically breast size is also closely related to body-type: the more athletic a person is, the less body fat they (typically) carry, and (typically) the smaller breasts they have.

    So now you have to factor in not just what breast size a man prefers, but what body-type he prefers. Would he be willing to trade more fat on the body in exchange for larger breasts?

    Some men would, some wouldn't.

    If you are curious about what "The Ideal Looking Women To Most Men" is, then just look at media, video games, etc. Nowadays (this changes over time) they are all not overweight (though possibly have a fair amount of body fat), have flat stomachs, a hip-to-waist ration of .7, symmetrical faces, and large breasts.

    But that body-type one, doesn't frequently exist in nature, and two, is designed around appealing to the greatest number of men possible, not any one particular man.

    Your husband is a unique individual. What he likes and prefers is impossible for us to guess at, as people really prefer so many, many different things. There are men, I am sure of it, that prefer a person so flat-chested that you couldn't tell their sex from a photo of just their chest. There are men that prefer breasts so large as to be beyond realistic. And there are men that prefer each and every step between those two.

    Ultimately though, in general, I think that preference about breast size for men is similar to preference about dick size for women. We could all describe an ideal, but there's so much more going on, of importance, in not only who we choose to be with but who we find attractive.

  • For most men, not important at all. We may have a preference if we're talking about some hypothetical perfect woman, but it's not as if a girl with a pretty face and a nice body in other areas suddenly gets ruined because he boobs aren't the right size.

    It's like the value we place on breast size is inversely proportional to the depth of our interaction with the woman. We value breast size in a nude/swimsuit model because she's only a model: the most we're ever going to do with her is look at her, so obviously the way she looks matters more. If we're looking for a hookup, it matters a bit less than the pinup girl... We'd like the girl to look nice, but there are tradeoffs to be negotiated because now the total picture is looks + sex, her looks make up less of the total package. And with romance of course, the total package is looks + sex + personality, it's a bigger list of criteria we're considering. Think if you were a teacher grading papers... Getting one answer wrong on a 5 question quiz is a critical error, while getting one answer wrong on a 100 question mid term is inconsequential.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Their just breasts some men like big some small.

    First it uses penises now breasts insecurity.

    Seriously don't be ashamed I'm a B and I love my size. My cousins are E and F. I simetimes wonder what they see when they look down

  • Ask him

    All people on here can do is give you politically correct answers

    • I agree with you on this. I'm not saying small boobs are bad but like the guy that is saying ew DDs. I mean really? I don't get that.

    • @cavmanier It's far easier to have BAD looking DDs than it is Bs. I've seen lots of floppy, saggy, wildly asymmetrical, stretch marked, deflated looking, or otherwise unappealing DDs. Bs are almost always perky and firm, and for my personal taste, they look better on the kind of body frame I like than DDs do.

    • Uh oh, we have more politically correct folks answering.

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  • Boob size is irrelevant. They are all lovely like different flowers. Other qualities of a woman are much more important like the size of her heart.

  • B-C is average. Unless you're extremely small or extremely big, you won't have much problem.

  • he must be satisfied but not so interested as every men like to rub and push the breast of their wives but he only rubs to not show you that you have very small breast and if you want to get large boobs than ask him that ki vo dbaye tumhari breast it will result in large breast size

  • Id ask him as long as your prepared for whatever answer he might give you! like you said obviously he loves you for who you are and accepts you body the way it is.There's always gonna be someone else out there that's better looking that your partner and I just feel like that's something the people need to realize. people need to understand that your not gonna get the hottest girl/guy out there and you need to just try to end up with someone that makes you happy. First off before you even ask him I would ask yourself if you would be willing or if your in the financial situation where you could get breast enlargement because if your not then there really isn't any point of you asking him because you wouldn't be able to do anything about it anyways. Sometimes the truth is gonna hurt a lot more than what it does no knowing but if it something you really want to look into then id ask him for his honest opinion!

  • Some men hate little boobs. Some men love small boobs. Some men don't care about the boob size at all.

    Some women hate little dicks, some women love little dicks, some women dont' care about the dick size at all.

    If a man loves you, he's going to love you, not secretly pine away for some physical attribute you have no control over.

    Personally, I love smaller boobs, they look hot and stay perky longer. Be satisfied with who you are and disregard all people who don't love you for how you are.

  • I cannot speak for every man but as far as I'm concerned, what you have is fine. Good men adapt to what they have and consider it as "good".

  • All breast size has its own beauty. For me is always more important overall impression, than part of the body.

  • it depends from men to men...some guys like bigger...some guys like smaller and handy...

    may be your husband is of second type...or you can just ask him...if he likes bigger ones you can surprise him by going for enhancement.

  • He wouldn't have married you or even gone out with you if hewasn't attracted to you.

    But like Anon, I'm gonna be honest. Generally, men prefer big breasts to small. Yes, I would prefer DD to B. But boobs are just ONE aspect of your looks, and then there's the whole issue of personality too. Men are pretty rational. We weigh the different aspects against each other. Personality is really the most important thing, unless it's just casual sex. That's where ANY girl, regardless of her other strengths and weaknesses, can make her mark. It's so difficult to find a girl with a great personality, that I would be willing to overlook many physical flaws, I really would. The girls who complain that guys don't care about personality typically don't have good personalities! The good news is, any girl can develop a good personality. Unlike many other aspects, perosnality is a matter of choice.

    But of course none of this should concern you, as you have your man.

  • Let's be honest here: A firm, well shaped, natural pair of DD cup breasts on an otherwise small girl is a HUGE turn on. Just incredibly hot. Hot when they walk by in clothes, hotter when they're displaying ample cleavage, scorching when they're naked and other-worldly when they're pressed up against you or in your mouth or wrapped around your penis.

    Now that that's out of the way, there's a lot more to sex and a lot more to a woman and a lot more to a relationship than that. This guy married you, so I'm sure he sees that difference. Does it mean he won't be turned on by incredible boobs when he sees them? No. Does it mean he won't check out big-titted models on the internet? No. But does it mean he'll wish he could leave you for another woman? Probably not.

  • NEWS FLASH: NOT ALL MEN LIKE BIG BOOBS!

    I personally find small breasts far more attractive than big ones, and many of my friends agree. The media has tricked women into believing that they are worthless unless they have huge breasts. If he married you he probably found you attractive.

    • Lol

  • "And if a pair of DDs walks by, I guess any man would notice"

    Ew DDs! Way too big. I notice DDs like I notice a car wreck. Although some guys are into them. Size B is fine. It's about shape, not size!

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