Threesome with boyfriend and friend?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend agreed to have a threesome with one of my friends but I set ground rules that he could do anything but have sex with her. I just didn't want any penetration between them. Well during the whole thing he was on his back and she got on top of him and "put it in her" for lack of better words. I guess I should have told her the ground rules but I figured she knew that kind of thing. He said later he didn't want to be rude and push her off and make things weird during the threesome. I am kinda mad but I don't know who to be mad at really. and I think he came inside her. he says he didn't but I know his sounds and looks when he cums and she orgasmed when he did. should I be mad at her? and on top of that if he did go inside her she could get pregnant. Threesome+friend=total mistake for my point of view.

[thelittlethings]

I would be mad at him. He didn't wanna make things awkward? What's worse, making things awkward in the threesome or making things awkward in the relationship? He messed up. You gave him a threesome and he broke the rules. I would be mad at him. You can't really be mad at her, she didn't know there were rules, and during a threesome most people assume sex is ok unless told otherwise.

Hopefully she is not pregnant. And hopefully this is the extent of the situation. What if one of them gets attatched to the other? He is your boyfriend, she is your friend, they are going to be hanging around together and it's going to create tension. The whole situation was a bad idea. You should have done it with someone who wasn't a friend. Or not done it at all.

I guess you just have to decide if it's worth getting over it and moving on in the relationship, or if it's something you can't, or don't want to get over and move on with your life.

[anonclguy]

Look, you should only be mad at yourself. If you're going to have a threesome with rules, you have to let both of the other people know. Your Boyfriend is right to not just toss her off during a threesome, and its fine for your friend to have f***ed your bf, thinking that would be ok (as it usually is in a threesome).

You will have to deal with it if she is pregnant, but that's on him not on you.

Why should you be mad? Your Boyfriend and your friend had an awesome time thanks to you. I'm sure your Boyfriend will love you more because of it now. Be happy.

[only-lonely-me]

A lot of people set the ground rules that you did. Unfortunately in the heat of the moment the rules are broken. He knew the ground rules, how quickly did he really push her off? Not quick enough for him not to come & when he was going to why did he not push her off sooner?

That is one of the many reasons I'm against threesomes.

Pregnant? Is she on any birth control?

Would she take that chance?

How do you know that she is free of STD's?

[dave216]

Nobody to be angry at except yourself. Get over it, learn from it, and be better prepared for any future adventures. At this point the bell can't be unrung, so just get over it and get back to enjoying life.

[DuggieFresh]

If anyone should be angry it should be you since there are tons of things that could happen.

[raj2022]

It's awesome... Do it again & again