What does it mean when he stops in the middle of having sex?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and so far we have had sex twice but every time were in the middle of it he stops. The first time it was because he had to pee and well he had snuck in my room and couldn't just go to the bathroom so he left I could understand that but the second time I was at his place and we were in the middle of it again and he stopped and said that he was getting cotton mouth from kissing me so he was gonna get something to drink and we would get back to it. Well he got something to drink and then smoked and then we just went to bed we didn't have sex again but he kept grinding on me for a while. What's it mean if he keeps just stopping?

[boi818]

It means he came already... but was too embarrassed to admit it...so he made an excuse to stop...

No guy would stop having sex for those reasons. A big sign was him, not continuing to have sex after he stopped... it was because he couldn't just get hard right away and go again.

[Agsded]

it means he has finished...ahead of schedule...that's it...he was done. He needs to try it again after...it can often last much longer than the first.

[Agsded]

Longer than the first...IF it is done shortly after I meant.

[Asker]

Wait but that would mean he came in me if he was finished....!?!

[Agsded]

Umm I'm not sure if you guys are playing the unprotected game...if your goal is to stop before he releases...that would also explain the immediate pause... but yes, normally he would have released if he was finished.

[dtwguy]

Yes I agree. He either did release and is afraid to talk to you about it. Or is so afraid of releasing, since you aren't using protection, that he loses his rise.

[Asker]

I don't know cause when he would stop it looked like he did come but I didn't feel anything and he didn't pull out or attempt to pull out at all

[dtwguy]

Buy a pregnancy test and confront your man.

[Agsded]

Pulling out or not has no relevance here. He may not have much to give.