My boyfriend is very submissive

My boyfriend is very submissive something I am OK with. I like to have control and tease him until he needs to come or can't hold it anymore. I love that, but my problem is that I'm running out of ideas to what to do, and I'm also not that confident. Only when I'm super horny. What to do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Try forced feminization. Make him put on a French maids outfit, and make him do chores around the house, give you a massage, or foot rub while teasing him, before granting him release. If not a maid, try being his mommy, bad aunt, school teacher, etc. Scold him for being a sissy, but make him do it, and go with the whole role play bit. It's fun and will feed into his strong dom female image and his submissive male role, which he obviously likes.

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    • Hey, it works and it's a lot of fun!

    • Oh, that was a good "wow"... I'm just jealous of whoever gets to serve you.

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  • Watch some BDSM video's. Call a phone sex dominatrix and ask her for ideas. You can also read message boards and blogs about the fantasies that subs have to get some ideas.

    I love submissive boys too. Sooooo much fun.

Most Helpful Guys

  • try introducing some toys. There is all sorts from prostate massagers, **** rings, gags, vibrators ect. Maybe introduce some rope and tie him up? or start stimulating him and say he's not allowed to come and if he does your not gonna stop anyway. Then when he has the inevitable orgasm just keep rubbing as you were before orgasm. It will drive him crazy and you might be able to keep him going to a 2nd orgasm.

  • Try reading in some of the BDSM literature about fem doms, also called dommes. Also, link is a good site for all kinds to **** and ball devices.

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  • You won't always have new ideas when it comes to sex, and that's a taste of what a married life is like. Fortunately, you can be sure that new ideas do come out of improvising. You can take an existing idea and make it better or different.

    Remember though:... when it comes to making love, don't think too much. Just act on your deepest emotions and desires. You're "giving" yourself to your partner, by every definition of the term.

  • Try switching roles and let him be the dominant one. Tell him no sex unless he takes the lead! He will get the hint. Also try some role playing.

  • Look into ruined orgasms / edging. Tons more stuff that make sex a lot more enjoyable

  • You can try and ask him if he wants to have a prostate massage or introduce a strap-on and you can make his world spin.. it can be fun for both..

  • Try tying him to the bed with straps or handcuffing him and blindfolding him and then teasing him a lot. If you don't want to go with straps or cuffs right away, you can go with tying him up with stockings or pantyhose.

  • make him lay on knees and spank him on his bum until he acts like a man

  • chastity devices