Help:( can't let my boyfriend go down on me. I'm paranoid about vagina scent.

[Anonymous]

No itching No burning never had an STD test so hope I'm std free atm had a urinary tract infection once like a year ago almost hit my kidneys Because I only drank like only a glass of water every day. Now I'm all good tho.. Anyways I have a scent that I don't think my boyfriend would like. I mean I don't know what a vagina is supposed to smell or taste like since I Haven't been down on a girl so I'm paranoid about my own smell. If I touch myself,the smell (which I consider is kinda strong but an exciting *me smell* so I like it) stays on my fingers for a couple hours. I wash it everytime I go see him and it doesn't seem to go away.. as soon as I use soap and wash it STILL smells same. WHAT DO? ** honestly I DO NOT KNOW If its a *normal* vagina smell or not. for me It has ALWAYS smelled like this even when I was 14-15 maybe younger even.**

[Anonymous]

If you are washing that area with soap that maybe the root of the scent. Technically speaking the vagina is a self cleaning organ just a little warm water is all it takes. Traditional body washes and soaps can change a woman's ph balance and lead to a stronger scent. I suggest doing a few things to help improve your natural scent the first being purchasing a femine wash something mild and organic that works with your ph. Sliquid feminine wash is great its vegan hypoallergenic and balances a woman's ph. Second your diet is key in improving your scent from within. Not only should you drink lots of water try and avoid ( or consume sparingly) foods like coffee alcohol garlic broccoli asparagus and red meat. Most experts say that eating a healthy low fat diet rich in citrus fruits will give you a sweeter taste.

[CityCutey]

You'll be surprised what kind of smells guys are into. Your guy is going to LOVE your V, trust me, he will not hesitate he will not say a word. I mean come on, if my guy ate my butthole a little personal info. which I found extremely gross, since I wasn't prepared for that and was in bathroom couple times before he went down on it. I'm 99.9% sure your V smell is not going to be a problem At All! you overreacting for absolutely no reason.

[Asker]

how hot do you consider yourself from 1-10 scale? (I mean you must be really hot for the butt hole thing?) Id give my self a 7-8:p

[CityCutey]

1. I would give myself 7.4 but that's not important. What is important, is your Attitude. Even though he is a leader and I Am a submissive person, in reality I can be as much if not more of a leader than he is. I act this way through my actions ( I forced him to go back to college and get a degree for his and my benefit.) He respects me, he values me, he submissively relies on me, because he knows that I'm better at few things that he is not.

[Asker]

thats amazing you are awesome! thank you for your advice :)

[CityCutey]

2. It is a combination of real respect and a little fear. He is not a guy that afraid of things, but he is afraid to loose me, because he knows, that I'll have no problem finding a new BF. I DON'T WANT TO, but he has to know of my capability. I think of myself as an Amazon warrior. I value trust and honesty above all and so does he. That's why it worked out perfectly, he values me, he does things FOR ME rather than himself and that's a clear sign that he loves me and have future plans for me :)

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Shave and buy oral sex candy from spencers or flavored lube. or like eat better or if its like a really bad smell I would ask your gynecologist. Just don't douche .

[MrOracle]

It sounds pretty normal to me. Yes, vaginas have a scent, and if you get your juices on your fingers, you can smell it for a while after. And if you have sex, you can smell it in the room. That's just how it is.

Most guys learn to like this smell, because it means wet, aroused pussy, and men are programmed to want that. Really, you just need to get past this fear, because you're making a HUGE MOUNTAIN out of what isn't even a molehill. Every girl's vagina has a scent. Yes, some are stronger than others, but they all have a scent, and none of them smell like Febreeze. You're just going to have to accept that.

[sovetskii13]

Have you ever asked why he won't do it? Ask if there is something that bothers him, if he's afraid, not ready, and ask what you can do that might help him do it. Communication is an important part of sexuality. Share your desires, likes, dislikes, etc. with each other because it will help you make better decisions in the future so both of you can have the greatest sex possible.

[Asker]

He wants to do it really bad. He wants to go down on me and keeps telling me step by step what he will do to me ahahah. but I'm too paranoid :(

[batdev]

Ask him what he thinks. Some females just smell a little more than others...but a lot of guys like the pussy smell.

[John83]

Don't worry so much about it. If you don't have any STDs or infections or anything like that, I'm sure it is normal vagina smell. If he wants to do it, I'm sure he is expecting there to be some scent, since there's no vagina that doesn't have a scent. For me, the smell is actually a major turn-on and is one of the biggest reasons I love going down on my girlfriend.

[Dragan]

Most men like the vagina, like how they smell. It is a natural and exciting for us. Relax, let it happen, close your eyes, feel his tongue on your clit. Enjoy every moment.