My friend wants to eat me out and I want her to

She says she wants to experiment but I've never been with a girl before. I watch a lot of lesbian p*rn and that turns me on so I wouldn't mind it if she wanted to go down on me. I want my fantasy to come true. But I'm scared. I don't want to be mean but she's kinda ugly to me so it'd be weird for me to kiss her. It wouldn't be weird for her to eat me out though. But it'll be my first time with a girl and I'd be more of a pillow princess than anything else because I'm not physically attracted to her. If she looked like Justin Bieber, I'd have no issue having sex and kissing but Idk. I want the sex but I'm scared. What should I do?
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  • You could hurt her feelings so keep your level of attraction to her a secret. It's not about looks really. But, since you're letting it affect you. I'd say fuck it and don't care about what she does as long as she doesn't something you don't want.

    Why would it not matter if she ate you out, but if she kissed you it would?

    Is it because she is gross and ugly, and you don't care what she does down there because don't care about what happens down there because your vag is gross too?

    I won't know if you tell me. So I'm just going to think I'm right unless you say it's wrong and why. I mean no disrespect by the way. Just letting you know...

  • don't do it. you might find another girl to experiment with. Even if it's just for her eating you out. If you say she's not attractive I'd say you should skip it. It might be a negative first lesbian experience for you and might regret it.

    • Idk where to find another girl though. There's no one cute here. But you're right, it might be a bad first experience since I'm not turned on by here.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you want the opportunity , take it because it doesn't come often especially with someone you already have a level of comfort with.

    You don't have to find her attractive, it isn't like you are planning to date her afterwards.

  • wow with all these questions popping up all the time I can see why heterosexual men had been so insecure lately .

    Well if yall are OK with it go ahead .

    • Idk or care about men

    • I know you don't but they are insecure lately I've noticed that a lot on here

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  • Tell her your willing to allow het to go down on you but that's ad far as it goes. No relationship but afriendship is available and your only open to rrecieving.x

  • Even though you "don't care about men" here is my thought... let her go down on you but let her know you're not comfortable kissing.

    Did you really have to say it'd be better if she looked like Justin Bieber? *gag

  • Mutual vagina to vagina rubbing each other ;)

  • well just make sure she knows what you're comfortable with and what you're not comfortable with.

  • Do what you want..but there is no way in hell I would let a woman eat me out. I am completely hetero.

    • great thanks for confirming your heterosexuality on a bicurious girl's question. Was it necessary? GTFOH with that bragging sh*t and stay out of the question

    • Don't ask if you don't want to people to answer.

    • It's called answer the question not talk about yourself

  • That escalated fast...

    Seriously... go with your gut. If you want the experience, but not with her, then maybe you should reconsider. However, if you can get past not being attracted to her and just want to get off, that is your choice.

    Think about it. Talk it over with her.

  • My female friend told me that she watches slot of porn. I was at her house one afternoon, and we watched porn together.
    Half way through the movie, she started rubbing my crotch. I had an immediate erection!!!

  • If I was you I would probably go for it but I think its best to go with your gut feeling.

    If you think you won't be conferrable having the sex with her then don't do it. You don't want to end up feeling guilty or like you made a mistake afterward. But then again this may be a rare opportunity for you to achieve your fantasy. You may end up feeling regretful if you don't do it.

    Its your call. Think it over for a while and look at the pros and cons of your situation. :)

  • Just tell her that she can eat you out without any reciprocation.

  • I'm straight when I was in my teens I was bi-curious experimented with a friend once or twice never regretted it. We are still friends all these many years later.

  • all I can say is that, a girl knows a girls body best

  • Do you really want to have sex with someone who is "kinda ugly" to you? Why? Answer those questions first.

  • You should find a hot woman instead.

    If you're worried about her ugliness, how will you know whether you really enjoy it?

    • I sort of got the impression when she said "kinda ugly," she was talking about how the other girl behaves towards her.