It's really none of his business at this point because you say you're only at the point with this guy to where you think you think he likes you. You don't need to be telling any guy this personal stuff until you're at least in a relationship with him. Once you tell him he might start blabbing it around because I'm sure you can't totally trust each other yet. If you must tell him anything just say you've not been as far as he has. On the other hand, you can give him some idea of how far you're gone if you feel comfortable enough with him. Based on what you tell him, yes he will think differently because there's a lot of difference between being a virgin versus being one that's had sex with several guys. Also, it depends on what kind of guy he is. Some guys aren't bothered at all how far their girlfriends have gone because they know girls have sex nowadays so they might even feel more comfortable with a girl that's had a few good boyfriends. Some guys might prefer a virgin or a girl that's not been around all that much. Why not wait until you know him much better and decide if he's the type of guy you could really like. But my gut feeling is to just tell him and not worry what he thinks because you have nothing to be ashamed about. It's your life and you have a right to live it however you like. It doesn't bother me at all that my girlfriend has had a few boyfriends before me because I think she's more ready to settle down and is more interested in a relationship now that's more loving and lasting. She's been able to experiment with sexual things and enjoyed those she's done and I find that appealing because I feel that she doesn't feel like she'd been missing out. .
well obv. be truthful
cause if you lie and he finds out then its pretty much dead
and he doesn't go out with you just cause of far you went
then you know he was never worth ur time!
Lol yes he says he doesn't care how far I've gone with other guys he just wants to know I won't lie about it but I don't think I can tell him right now
Y can't you tell him? u don't trust him enough?
Be truthful, what's worse lying to him now for something he will certainly find out later or telling the truth, and you being under 18 I would hope you haven't gone so far as to worry what you tell him!
Im 17 lol but I don't know if I should tell him or not and I don't want to lie his goner find out eventually I'm really confused at the moment
I think if you feel comfortable talking to him, then you should tell him. And, if he really likes you, it shouldn't matter how far you've gone with other guys.
He told me what he done and he told me it doesn't matter what I done which I haven't told him yet we are both on the same level I guess we both done everything execpt for sex its just that I didn't tell him yet
Just tell him the truth. You can't build a relationship on a bunch of lies, he'd find out eventually anyway.
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Well, how far have you gone?
Everything execpt sex I guess? I only done it once with this guy and he was my boyfriend at the time and yerh I guess I was young and stupid I regrete it ever since its been 2 years and I haven't done anything like tht with other guys though so it was a one off
Well, honesty is definitely the best policy. If you're planning on starting a real relationship with this person you should not hide your past. You can't change your past and you shouldn't want to. Don't start a relationship with a lie, it will just end up bad in the end.
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