First handjob was bad, how do I make the second one mind blowing?

First one(in detail): haahhaha Funny story. Club house. Me and a friend decided to stay the night in her club house we used to spend time in when we were kids. We invited my boyfriend. And we hjust had a great time. Then she just had to go and fall asleep. So we were making out, quietly. And the pace started getting faster. And it was getting heated. And wonderful. And I was on top of him. And I could see he was already pleased. And we had our close on, even though I was only wearing underwear. Because it was my pajamas, along with a t-shirt. And we were just moving with each other, and putting pressure where needed. And he was obviously getting hard. So I was kissing his neck, which made his whole body shake. And going back to his lips, and back. And then we naturally separated. And he was laying there. And I was next to him facing him. And we were making out again, and I started feeling him, through his pants. and we were breathing heavily. and I unbuttoned his pants. And I stuck my hand in his pants. He started trying to do the same to me, but I stopped him. it felt good, I just wasn't comfortable with it. So I gave him a handjob. We kissed and stuff the whole time. he seemed please. I'll tell you exactly what I did though. I stroked the shaft, mostly starting at the base. I can't remember if my palm was on the underside or topside.. But occasionally I touched the tip. Very lightly though. I changed pace when it seemed needed. I didn't forget about the kissing. I don't know... That's all I can think of. But he said "Pretty good for your first time." I think it was his first handjob. I'm sure he's used to himself. But I'm not sure. I just want to make the second one better. So maybe you can give me some tips on how to really make him happy. And honestly, I didn't finish. So... I feel like I f***ed up. ahhah
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think girls are under the impression that we are going to have an orgasm the way they do. Clitoral stimulation is not a model for masturbating a guy. Every guy will get off with a hand job (he masturbates, I'm sure). The trick is not trying to stimulate the sensitive part, it massive stimulation of the whole shaft. When you are first starting play with the balls and head an rub it open handed but as you get into it, you need to grab his shaft hard with your hand (think of you hand being a tight p--sy). Don't slide your hand up and down the shaft unless you use a lubricant otherwise you will hurt him, but hold tight and pump up and down. The skin on the outside of the penis if loose and will slide up and down the shaft with your hand and what we feel is pure pleasure as you stroke up and down on our shaft. Toy with the balls with the other hand but keep pumping faster and faster and you will get moby to blow:)

  • Tell him that the best way for you to learn how to give him a hand job is to watch him do it to himself. If he can get over any initial reluctance, it will be educational for you an mind blowing for him.

    He may ask you to do the same thing for him, and you should definitely go for it!

    If you don't want to do that, use some type of lube the next time and it will be much better.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I couldn't get my guy off with a hand job. I tried 3 times, it never worked. The underside of the head is the most sensitive spot, and I did whatever he asked me to do, but I couldn't. I felt like I effed up, too. He kept saying, "It's not your fault," but I always thought it was. The first 2 times he had to finish himself. The last time we were both really frustrated so we just moved on. I gave him a BJ and it was a million times better. I'm not saying you should give him a BJ if you're not comfortable. Just ask him to tell you what he likes when you're giving him a HJ. Don't worry if it's not that great, because no one will he able to give him a better hand job than himself. Ever. Don't beat yourself up about it.

  • Actually its about feeling his rythm so it was a good job it mean.
    by the way read some or watch but your first already means next will better.
    Aware usb😉

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  • Always ask a guy to show you how he does it. Guys are experts with their penis. If he had an orgasm then he liked the hj.

  • Guys like different things, but this is what I like: My wife will get between my legs so she can use both hands. She will start lightly on my balls then lightly on the underside of my penis, which is the most sensitive part. She will continue lightly on both. This gives me intense pleasure, enough to get me close, but not enough to send me over the edge. She will continue this for 30 minutes or more…it drives me nuts (pardon the pun). Toward the end, she will grip a bit tighter and go slowly until I can’t hold it anymore. WOW!!! So intense!!!

  • Are we all invited to this club house?