How can a girl be a bad lay?

Question

One time a friend of mine (guy) who had slept with another friend of mine (girl) said that the girl was a bad lay.  How is this possible?I mean, girls say that guys are bad lays because we go too fast or too hard, or roll over & go to sleep after we've finished & neglect the girl's needs......but how could a GIRL be a bad lay?  Aren't we guys pretty easy to please?  Couldn't a girl just lay there and be still during it all, and we'd still finish & be happy?

Skippy13 · Accepted Answer

No we aren't easy to please. I just got done writing this somewhere else but I'll do it again. Women can be a bad lay for the following reasons, and these are just a few off the top of my dome:

Things that fall under a bad lay...

she does what some call "the starfish." It's where she just lays there and does nothing. Pretty much like having sex with a blowup doll with a pulse.

A chick who doesn't know what the hell she is doing but thinks she's doing it like a pornstar. Don't waste my time.

A woman who doesn't know how to communicate what she wants or needs. This just makes for an awkward session. Also frigid women who have all these emotional hangups. This transfers into the sex

loddo · Accepted Answer

when you are young and/or inexperienced then maybe the girl's input doesn't matter much.  but mature sex involves lots of interactions and both people communicating desires, exploring things, being actively involved.  there are definitely some girls that are less fun in bed than others.

Filrtnumber1 · Accepted Answer

depends on the person , and what they expect during they have sex.

nappycurls · Answer

Some guys don't like girls that just lay there...

boi818 · Answer

NO.. well there are some girls that have horrible rhythm when "humping"..others just lay there..

1FastFC · Answer

i think the #1 reason why the women who are bad in bed are bad in bed is because they believe that all they have to do is be there for the guy to enjoy it